Bfp and now can't stop worrying and please help

[Natty_babez]

Hi everyone

I finally got my bfp this afternoon after suffering a miscarriage last August. We are all so happy but I can't stop worrying already I have really sore boobs and a dull ache in my stomach and the occasional backache which I'm praying is just bedding in pains and this time they will stick but I am so scared !!

Does it get easier the further along you get ? I had implantation bleeding with my little girl and I'm so scared if this happens this time even if it is just that I am going to think the worst and be an awful mess. I'm making an appointment with the midwife when the doctors are open as I already have complications so have to have early scans etc but if I asked would they do me some bloods just to check my hcg is rising ? My last miscarriage I think started at roughly 5 weeks and as of today I am 4 weeks 2 days

Any help or re assurance is much appreciated

Xxx

 

[Jox]

Lots of love Hun. I mc at around 7-8 weeks at the end of December and I'm not gonna lie, it doesn't get any easier.

All I can honestly say to u is what will be will be, there is absolutely nothing u can do at this stage to prevent anything from happening. I know it's not what u want to hear but all the tests in the world can't stop the bitch that is Mother Nature xx

 

[Natty_babez]

Thanks Hun I'm hoping everything happens for a reason and this time round everything will be ok. I just keep trying to take one day at a time but it's so hard

Xx

 

[Jox]

It is so hard and consumes all ur thoughts as much as u try to not let it.

I had a scan at 6+3, all was good, saw baby and hb. Was starting to worrying again then has some pink tinged snotty discharge on Saturday so I'm panicking again. Have an appt st epu on Thursday x

 

[ser523]

Hey natty! *hugs* I can definitely understand your worry, I've had two early mc's myself. Last year, both happened about a week after my bfp. I'm almost 6 weeks and I'm definitely scared! This is actually the farthest I've gotten. Honestly, I think I'll be full of anxiety until I have a baby in my arms. And I'm sure I'll be anxious about a thousand other things at that point. I've been trying to keep busy and keep my mind on other things until my first u/s next Monday. If you can, try to keep yourself occupied the best you're able!

 

[CVR1986]

I had an mmc last April and Im currently 11+2. The first few weeks were a struggle. Then I decided to have a private scan for reassurance at 7+3 and all was fine. I had a 2nd scan at 10 weeks as lost last baby at 8+5 (found out 10+5). I now feel much better and looking forward to my dating scan next week.
I think the worry will be there but try to keep busy so that you aren't thinking about it all the time.

 

[Natty_babez]

I keep wishing these days away I started to miscarry at 5 weeks last time so I am wanting to get to Saturday then I'll be 5 weeks then I'll want to get to 6 weeks so then if anything happens at least I can get an early scan to look for the heartbeat. I don't want to worry like this but I can't help it I'm trying to keep busy and with 2 jobs and a 4 year old little girl it's not hard but I keep drifting back to thinking about the little baby hopefully growing inside me right now. I said to my mum I desperately want to be happy and think about the future but I'm to scared to at the minute I keep thinking I'm going to go to the toilet and there it will be I'm googling every little twinge or pain and constantly paranoid

Xxx