Bit of a rant!

[blamesydney]

So, OH's grandmother had given us her house, since she's moving to texas. She's rich, the house is 100% hers, all we'd have to pay is utilities. We were going to build a playground in the backyard for LO and a in-ground kiddie pool and I was going to make her a cool playroom as well as her bedroom and everything was all planned out, all we needed was for OH to get a job so that I could go back to college in the fall.

Well come to find out yesterday that his parents decided, screw us, they're taking the house instead, since we're young and "irresponsible". Forget that fact that I have a toddler I'm trying to provide a stable home for. They didn't even tell us, OH's sister did because she doesn't like the idea any more then I do.

Needless to say, I'm heartbroken and I feel as if I have a huge knife in my back. I don't know if I should take this as a sign that I shouldn't move in with OH or if I should break my neck to get us both jobs and afford some small apartment and forget school. I'm literally in tears just typing this. OH has nowhere to go, even.

I already felt guilty moving in with OH when he isn't LO's father, now I feel even worse!
I'm just downright depressed.

I know this hasn't got much to do with FOB, this is just the only thread I really feel at home.

 

[LastBabyforMe]

I am so sorry for this setback. That is so upsetting! Why would they be so selfish to deprive a young family of a place to live. I am learning more and more that people are just heartless.

I am praying that things will improve SOON

 

[blamesydney]

I am so sorry for this setback. That is so upsetting! Why would they be so selfish to deprive a young family of a place to live. I am learning more and more that people are just heartless.

I am praying that things will improve SOON

Thanks so much!
His parents are very selfish, and they will never stop viewing Jake as an irresponsible child. He has grown up SO much since we've been together but they just won't accept that. I've gone looking at apartments today and I'm a bit torn up because poor Scarlet won't have a backyard to dig up and all that. I guess I'm being silly at this point but I'm pretty ready to give up.

 

[creatingpeace]

So sorry you are going through that. Where does his parents live now? Are they also in need of a place?
Perhaps once OH gets a job they will come around???

 

[blamesydney]

They have a house that they have lived in since OH was a child. They have expressed no interest in moving and have specifically stated there's no chance they would move into that house. Jake's parent's aren't the type to just come around. They will simply smirk and make snide comments and say things like "Well, at least he's TRYING, look how far that's getting him" all sarcastically.

 

[Dream.dream]

I know how you feel , i was supposed to get a duplex from this baby's dads grandparents , as they know we're struggling with a tiny 2 bedroom apartment we have to pay afortune for

They decided to give it to his brother and his girlfriend who both make 2 times the money I do and don't need the extra 2 bedrooms and already have a house they've rented for years

I was going to pay then 500 a month for rent and they gave it to them free . It sucks would have made my life so much better