BLW what does this actually mean?

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basically as the title says, i don't fully understand what baby lead weaning is, although my LO hasn't arrived yet, id like to know as much as i don't already in advance!
Thanks :)
 
just to add, i have seen the thread at the top of here and looked at the WIKI link which didnt really help all that much. i think i have a idea of what BLW is but would like to know what foods, how it works, do u still feed mushed up foods too? any easily understandable info for mums, not from wiki :D
 
To briefly answer your questions, you give pretty much all foods; you just give LO a plate of normal family food and let them have a go; you never put something in LO's mouth, they feed themselves; you don't mush things specifically for LO.

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BLW means Baby Led Weaning, which is a method of weaning described by Gill Rapley in her book "Baby Led Weaning: Helping Your Baby to Love Good Food". It's worth a read as it explains it perfectly.

To put it really simply, BLW means:
- No puréeing or mushing anything you wouldn't eat like that yourself e.g you can give mashed potatoes if you're having them, but you wouldn't mash a chicken or a pear!
- No feeding LO - let LO feed him/herself.
- No introducing foods in a certain order, just give LO what your family is eating unless there is an allergy or family history of allergy.
- Avoid praise or encouragement - let LO enjoy food for its own sake, not because you'll make coochy-coo noises!
- Don't tell LO what to eat off a plate - if LO wants the meat and leave the potatoes, just let them. They know what they need.
- Trust your baby's abilities, basically :)

You don't avoid much, just things like honey before a year old (risk of infant botulism with it, even cooked), no whole nuts or big pieces of nuts, keep salt down to a minimum and you normally avoid the kind of things you avoid in pregnancy until a year old, like undercooked eggs, certain fish.

It's quite common to see people say that they are combining TW and BLW, but that's impossible because TW involves purées and BLW is NO purées. You can do TW in a baby led way (no force feeding, let LO choose etc) and include finger foods, but it's still just TW.
 
Just to add to Rachel's good post, if you opt to do BLW, remember that the family foods should not have excessive amounts of salt and fat and no salt should be added. If you don't have the best of diets, you will need to make a small change to your family foods.
 
i dont really understand how this is possible with a 6 month old baby, id be afraid of him choking on something like beans, or spaghetti :s is that just me been panicky?
 
You'd be suprised what a 6 month old can handle. For the first few weeks you may find your LO won't eat much but just play around with the food which is fine. They need to get used to picking food up and bringing it to their mouths. I've read a LOT on BLW and have not come across serious choking, the most common thing you will get is gagging which can be scary if you don't know what to expect. You can have a look on youtube at some vids to prepare yourself. If your baby is gagging don't intervene as they will bring the food up eventually.

If you are really worried you could take an infant CPR class to ease your mind.
 
i dont really understand how this is possible with a 6 month old baby, id be afraid of him choking on something like beans, or spaghetti :s is that just me been panicky?

A 6 month old is just as capable eating as a 9 month old+
 
It's great that you are doing so much research, but remember that you don't have to BLW. You can choose traditional weaning (purées) if you prefer. And you don't have to make the decision just yet.
 
It's quite surprising. I never heard of it until I joined BabyandBump, and we tried it with our second. It was great!!! Have faith that they wont choke. Its highly unlikely! At first, they might not even eat a lot, but you just keep up the milk as that's the most important thing in the first year. They explore and work it out themselves. We done "TW" with our first and I'll be honest, it was so time consuming! :haha:

I'm not one to put a label on feeding the child either, people get really hung up on the "its not BLW if they are spoonfed anything". Who cares :shrug: it's weaning! Do what works for you, and have confidence whatever you do!
 
Have a look at some YouTube videos of BLW. It's incredible what babies can manage to eat! It helped me as there are also vids showing babies gagging. Sounds horrible but it's good to see that it's just gagging and makes it easier to handle when you see it for yourself.
 
ive just typed into google 'baby led weaning' and found a pretty good website that kinda explains it and also gives some recipes:
www.babyledweaning.com very helpful.
Thanks for your replies guys :) x
 

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