I would give anything to have a vaginal birth. I had a EMCS and it was awful and I'm dreading my upcoming planned CS (I can't have a VBAC because of complications during my last section). The recovery was awful, I was months before I could get back to my normal life and when I moved the wrong way I had pain in my scar for over a year. Now I have to have another CS and for 6 weeks after at the very least, I'm not going to be able to pick up and fully care for my toddler. CS's have their place in emergencies or health concerns for mom and/or baby, but it is major surgery and should not be done unless necessary.