can anyone give me advice...4/5 weeks preg

[missjmc]

hi ladies im new!! hope you r all well?

im between 4/5 weeks pregnant and i keep on thinking im going to loose my LO..even though iv not had any bleeding or pain? im trying to stay positive but its niggeling away at the back of my head its driving me mad..
iv had a still born @27wks, a mc @ 11wks and a prem baby @26 weeks but was ill and saddly passed away@ 3yrs old....

is there any thing ovbious i should look out 4 this early, as a sign of a mc im so scared i just want to be a mum so bad...xxx

 

[hb1]

I think it varies so much from one person and each pg to another. And even what are considered typical signs of mc ( cramping and bleeding ) don't necessarily mean mc. People also panic about loss of symptoms which again could mean something or nothing.

I can only suggest taking one day at a time and if at any point you are worried to speak to your mw and get referred to epu - am sure that they will see you straight away given your history.

Generally you have better odds than it feels like of everything going smoothly and you having your baby here safe and sound

hx

 

[lilwelsh1]

didnt want to read n run so heres a as long as u r in no pain and theres no bleeding everything is fine. I know its hard to try n relax and not think the worst. All the best for the remainder of your pregnancy xx

 

[wish2bmama]

Oh my gosh, I am so very sorry for your losses

With my mmc, I had no signs of anything going wrong. And with my recent loss of one twin, I had every sign of mc, but didn't lose him/her until later and the bleeding and cramping had nothing to do with it.

Symptoms don't mean much hun. Try and relax and take it easy, I know that is very hard to do, but all you can do is your best.

I found watching cute ducky or kittie videos helped Made me feel the warm fuzzies.

xxxx

 

[Loui1001]

Keeping everything crossed that it all goes well for you huni xx