Can't believe it

[Tasha18]

Last night I felt a strange sensation in my stomach and this morning I woke up to a bed full of blood.
Looks like I have lost my baby
I swear I am being punished for having an abortion last year, am now scared to death that because of the termination I will never have children

Tasha xx

 

[cupcake]

oh tasha, im so sorry have u been to see the doctor?

 

[Always&4ever]

I'm sorry sweetie

 

[xxleannexx]

im so sorry hun, ur not been punished it can happen to anyone xxx

 

[Rumpskin]

I am so sorry to hear your news.

I had a termination 16 years ago and fell pregnant really quickly last year. Like you I felt that I didnt deserve to be pregnant after I terminated my pregnancy. I miscarried a few weeks ago so know what you are going through.

Please feel free to PM me if you want to talk.

Sending you hugs

 

[Tasha18]

Thanks everyone I have just got back from the doctors and it has been confirmed. I was under a lot of stress and they think this is what may have cause it.
Sorry to hear about your baby Rumpskin xx

 

[Rumpskin]

Thanks everyone I have just got back from the doctors and it has been confirmed. I was under a lot of stress and they think this is what may have cause it.
Sorry to hear about your baby Rumpskin xx

Hi Tasha18

I am so very sorry lovely. Is your OH with you to support you? I hope that you are coping okay.

Lots of love

 

[goldlion]

Tasha, so sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[Linzi]

Sorry to hear of your loss You aren't being punished, unfortunately a lot of miscarriges happen for no reason whatsoever.

I hope you've got someone near to support you.

xxx

 

[nikkybaby]

I am so sorry for your loss

 

[maddiwatts19]

Awww hun! im so sorry!
Hope your ok!.
Things will get better!
xx

 

[charlottecco2]

I'm so sorry to hear this tasha. i hope you are getting lots of support and hugs xx

 

[Vickie]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[Nikkinoonoo]

So sorry Tasha

 

[JennyLynn512]

Tasha,

I definitely wanted to reply to this post as one of my best friends went through the almost the same thing as you. About 8 years ago, she was date raped and became pregnant. Because of the circumstances, her parents took her to get an abortion. 5 years later, she got married and decided to have children. Her husband and her got pregnant on the first try, but soon lost the baby at 10 weeks. The doctors told her that of course she was not being punished for having the previous termination, but there may have been excess scar tissue or other problems caused by the abortion that had caused her to miscarry this baby. They told her that (and this is just what they told her, may not be true) 80% of all pregnancies RIGHT after an abortion end in miscarriage because there is so much scarring still there. Now, her husband and her got pregnant again a year later and gave birth to a little boy who is ADORABLE!

I don't know if what the doctors told her is true or not, but I do know it makes sense that there would probably be some scarring that needs healing. You are definitely not being punished sweetie and just keep trying, you will get pregnant and carry a beautiful baby full term. I'm sure of it!

 

[honeybunch2k7]

Oh hun I'm very sorry.

I don't think you are being punished. Please don't tell yourself that!

 

[doctordeesmrs]

So sorry to hear your news.

 

[Serene123]

Oh no I'm sorry! Hope you're O.K.

 

[Ersurgeongirl]

im sorry about your loss

 

[miel]

i am very sorry ...you are not being punish sweet.
my thoughts are with you.