My ex when he was out there, and a lot of my friends who've been out, I included things like these in their care packages I sent:
- sweets/chocolate
- Protein powder or protein bars are a massive thing that they always wanted, though the protein powder is a big tub so I always chose to send bars,
- Big bags of crisps (sensations, doritos etc.)
- Cereal bars (nutrigrain was his favourite
)
- He couldn't live without BBQ sauce so I sent quite a bit of it
- Chewing gum, I would buy the multipacks of 3/4
- Beef jerky
- Lip balm (I sent him an SPF one)
- Toileteries our troops have to buy out there they aren't provided with them and they were expensive so I sent those, though with him being my partner I knew the brands he used, I would maybe make sure to ask in the letter if there's any particular brands they like to use incase they have sensitive skin/allergies before sending them anything like that.
- Sun cream and insect repellants
- I even sent him a (very girly) foot pack with him being on his feet on patrol to pamper his feet with a cooling and heat pack, some lotions, and some gel cushions to put inside his boots that he really appreciated and said was one of the best things he had out there that he wouldn't have thought of.
- Paracetamol/Ibuprofen/Antacids
- ITunes gift card
- DVDs and CDs
- Travel board games (though I think you could send the normal fullsized ones too)
- He loved Sudoku so I often sent the puzzle books of them but there's always others (wordsearch/crossword etc.)
- My ex was there over Christmas so in a Christmas package we sent a few Christmas decorations for him to put around his tent.
- Fleece blankets
- Hats/Gloves/Hand warmers/Socks
- Energy sweets (lucozade ones)
- Paper pads/pens/pencils
- Boot laces
- BLANK cards and envelopes for them to write back
- Packets of cuppa soup and instant noodles
- Mints
- Baby wipes
There's probably a lot more I included in them but I thought this was maybe long enough for a fair few packages for you