Hello everyone,
Well its been almost 2 weeks since our darling angel Olivia was born sleeping on 18th january. You always think it'll never happen to me...well here I am. Will probably be after lots of advice if anyone is willing to offer. xx
Hi, I am really sorry for your loss.
I too am new here, only joined about 2 weeks ago after my LO was born sleeping on 12th Jan 2012. (thought i was 17 weeks but LO had died 13-14 weeks, despite healthy scan at 12-13 weeks)
The first few days were a blur, so many different emotions racing around, from dispair, sadness and even anger that this could have happened.
We had a funeral service for our LO on mon 23rd Jan and laid the ashes to rest at the babies`s memorial garden at the hospital. So I now have a place to visit to be with my baby.
once this was done a felt a weight had been lifted and felt we could start to look forward, but I am still having bad days and haven`t been too good since Sunday as DH doesn`t think we should try again.
I also had MMC July 09 at 10 weeks (8 weeks gestation) we allowed 1 AF and in sept 09 I became pregnant again and my little boy was born May 10. I found becoming pregnant again so soon really helped with the grieving process and all those milestomes ie due date, didn`t seem quite so bad.
I desperately need to do the same this time, but me and DH need to have a good chat.
everyone deals with thse things differently, but there is no right or wrong this to do and feel, you just do what makes you feel better.
When you feel ready to try again, then you should, try not to worry and take each day as it comes. Just because it happened once, it doesn`t mean it will happen again.
There are lots of lovely ladies here who are always willing to chat and offer advice and tell you their stories and what they are doing to cope.
We are always here.