Changing my number

[Mummy1995]

Hey

My phone contract runs out in September so I'm going to be getting a new number. Do you think I should give it to FOB or do you think it's pointless? I don't see why he'd need it..

I have his new one but only time I am ever going to contact him now is if Isabella asks me to. He text me saying it's his new number in case I ever needed to contact him. Yeah ok, I hope he doesn't think I'd contact him of she got ill as he'd be the last person on my list. In fact is wouldn't even be on it! But that's another story/moan x

 

[Emma&Freya]

Does he look after your daughter? If he does I would

 

[Mummy1995]

Had no contact for almost 5months and he's only seen her 5times x

 

[teal]

Does he have another way to contact you? Like an email address or lives near enough?

I found changing my number a good way to help with the "moving on" I changed it after I gave him a sort of one more chance when LO was around 19 months. I received nothing but abuse so changed my number after that. (My ex has never met LO).

I suppose if you feel it's something you need to do then you need to do it xx

 

[Emma&Freya]

No I wouldnt give him your number then

If he hasnt bothered to keep in contact then you shouldnt bother xx

 

[Mummy1995]

He has my dad's number and house number and he lives 10 mins away! Okay I won't give him it then I told him one last chance last time I contacted him and got no reply anyway xx

 

[weebubba]

The law in the UK states that they must have a contact number for you - I found this out via my divorce. Ex wouldn't give me address or number but expected me to let him have the kids! Lawyer told me it was not acceptable, you need a point of contact.

I would give the number - doesn't mean you have to answer any of his calls or respond to messages.

 

[Mummy1995]

He has my house number and address though and he's not even on her bc x

 

[weebubba]

As long as he can contact you thats all that is required. You needn't do more.

 

[Ceejay123]

I wouldn't, purely because he's a jackass and I wouldn't want him contacting you constantly now that he's feeling like he's missing out

Tell him he can email you. X

 

[Mummy1995]

Aha! yeah I'm not going to give it to him! He would only need it if he was having unsupervised contact in case anything happened and that I'm afraid, is never going to happen x

 

[creatingpeace]

Why would he need your cell number when he has your house number. Non issue!