No sorry if I wasn't clear the doctors haven't mentioned charge they haven't mentioned much just told me that they want to check now that he doesn't have some kind of syndrome she said "im not saying he has, but we don't want to miss anything" so its just left me completely confused! The first doctor was awful he was a locum apparently and told me then when my son was 22-23 months old that he could have autism, ADHD, brain damage or a rare chromosome disorder and he will never change "children like him don't change we just have to make the best and deal with how they are". He hadn't even spoken to him, played with him or even seen him outside of his pushchair, I complained about him and now its a different doctor who hasn't really said much tbh but she seems better.
The C- well he has the colobomas, H- no heart problems sio this doesn't apply, A- cant remember now what that was sorry, R- he has gdd but also he stopped growing at 34 weeks from IUGR so I don't know if that counts, he is still small for age but now in the normal range about 9th centile. G- he had an iguinal hernia repair and one testicle had to be sewn down as it wouldn't stay down, so I was thinking would this class as the genital bit but now I don't think so. E- is this epicanthal folds? if so he has those but I think I do and his brother does and his brother seems great. Apologies if I got all that completely wrong like I say I was confused but now I think I did actually get it wrong and he doesn't have it from your links but that was how I was thinking when I started the thread.
Another thing that is unusual physically (probably the only physical difference I can see) is his chest when he was in NICU it was a recessive sternum I think?! where it goes in and out when they breathe the actual ribcage now he is older it doesn't do this but it is permanently sort of sticking out at the top you can see it all protruding top middle centre of his chest if that makes sense, none of the doctors have ever said its a problem but ive never seen any other child or adult like it so I don't know.
ETA- my son is 28 months old.