coming upto what would of been my due date :(

[87lianne]

Hello i havent posted on this forum for a while,
Im feeling a bit down in the dumps today i sometimes get like this when its a really miserable day outside. Its coming upto what would of been my due date the 29th sept. I lost a baby at 13 weeks back in april, thought i was almost 16weeks but when i went to midwifes no heartbeat i had a D&C and i got pregnant straight away and although im really happy about being pregnant again i cant help feeling upset more now its coming upto the due date. My best friend is pregnant aswell and we were 5 days apart she is due on oct 4th so that is quite hard aswell although i am happy for her i just hope i cheer up soon because im feeling so down

 

[debgreasby]

 

[LilLickysBump]

<hugs> xxx

 

[hb1]

These milestones always get you stay strong

hx

 

[Vickieh1981]

I'm so sorry hun. I hate the weeks leading up to my due date, it was a relief to be past it.

 

[MissMaternal]

I know how you feel hun. My due date would have been today. It's hard but hopefully it will be better once it's passed. Hope the day is gentle on you xx

 

[tinybutterfly]

for me, the days that lead up to my due date were worse than my due date itself.
but i was so happy once the day over
(((hugs)))

 

[87lianne]

thankyou im feeling a bit better the past couple days baby im currently pregnant with has been wriggling around alot more so its hard to stay sad all the time. My friend is due 4th oct which is my next scan day and that will be a bit weird because i will probably be thinking when im up the hospital i wonder if i would of been here having my baby now if i didnt mc

 

[2wantedpls]

Hi Hun. I no exactly how you feel. I had a mc and my bezzie was due like a week after me. Watching her grow even though I fell pregnant again was really sad for me. She then went to have her baby a bit early (the day before my due date!), so whilst me trying to deal with my due date I had to deal with her having her baby. I was ok but still hurt, you know?

On due date we went to local beach and set off a lantern each. Was very emotional but I got some closure and have since managed to be more focused on the little wriggler inside me now.

 

[FierceAngel]

hugs hun x

charlies due date is fast approching too (17/10) i have a 'friend' who is due 22/10 - i say 'friend' she is someone i was once close friends with now we speak on fb occasionally.. but im thinking of deleting her as im fed up of her moany staus's whiuch i know is normal but i just want to reply of course your uncomfortable your nearly due stop whinging and be greatful! x

 

[18singlemom2b]

i can relate, and the pain never completely goes away. i remember it was very very hard for me for atleast a year after my miscarriage, my current pregnancy is helping me heal though. i'm happy for you that you have another chance at motherhood, because you deserve it. stay strong

 

[87lianne]

i can relate, and the pain never completely goes away. i remember it was very very hard for me for atleast a year after my miscarriage, my current pregnancy is helping me heal though. i'm happy for you that you have another chance at motherhood, because you deserve it. stay strong

Thanks such a lovely thing to say. My due date would of been today and i dont feel as bad as what i thought although i did have a good old cry last night after i put my son to bed as you said i think this pregnancy is helping me to heal also thanks for your comments