D&C booked for tuesday, do it still have to have it?

JemmaD

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i found out on friday that i had lost my baby i have been bleeding since tuesday, after they scaned me on friday to comfirm the loss they wanted to do the D&C there and then but i was too heart broken to do it so they have booked me in for tuesday.

Ive hardly been able to move since friday night the pains have been so bad, ive been passing very large cotts since 7am do you think i will still have to have the D&C on tuesday? i dont think i can bring my self to leave the house im so upset if i go out all i see is babys i put the tv on and there on the adverts, were i will be having the D&C is right next to were the babys are being born it would kill me seeing that right now:cry:
 
Hi hun

Maybe you should give them a ring & see what they say? they may still want to double check that you have passed everything? I know this is very upsetting sweetheart but its probably for the best that you are still checked over to be on the safe side as you could get an infection if anything still remains inside you :hugs: xx
 
Hi hun

Maybe you should give them a ring & see what they say? they may still want to double check that you have passed everything? I know this is very upsetting sweetheart but its probably for the best that you are still checked over to be on the safe side as you could get an infection if anything still remains inside you :hugs: xx

i think i might go to BEP and they will scan me im pray this will be the end of it now
 
I would go darling just so that they can check.

I will be thinking of you xx
 
Of course you don't have to do anything you're not ready for:hugs:


Speak to your Dr or midwife and explain that you'de rather wait for a couple of weeks for things to happen naturally and if they don't by then can you have a scan to double check before you do have a D&C:hugs::hug:
 
they will scan u anyway hun 2 see if u defo still need dnc ... i thought i wudnt of needed it doing as i was sent home told to cum bk in a wk,in that wk i was bleeding so so heavy was convinced it had all come out,but when she scanned me she said only a tiny bit of the sac had cum away:( so i had the dnc and almost felt like i was ok for when i started again,if i didnt have it i wud keep thinking somat had been left in, im sry for ur loss i know its horrific,get the support/advise u need from others x x x
 
Hunny i have no advice just want to send you lots of love xxx
 
Hey babe, how did you get on today? I am going in this week - having medical management first hoping not to need d&c as didnt need to last time. Im keeping my fingers crossed for us both. I hope the pain is subsiding now and you had the answer you were hoping for.
Let me know babe, am thinking of you xx
 
Go and checked you passed everything, that way you can avoid getting an infection...:hugs:
 
Ive been there babe...so sorry you had to go through it...

Big Mahoosive hugs, Omi xxx
 

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