Do you ever feel

[MissRhead]

Do you ever feel jealous of people with OH's? All of my friends are settled down with boyfriends/husbands. And they all do things together, im never invited, i dont think id go anyway, to be sat their on my own, but itd be nice to be thought of. I feel so lonley all the time, like at night when LO is in bed and im sat on my own every night. But then i never get close to anyone, i tend to push men away, and i dont know why, because i want more than anything to be a 'couple' Does anyone eles feel like this, or am i just weird xxx

 

[Mally01]

Nah you are not alone hun. I have only split from my ex a few weeks and it's so difficult watching adverts on telly with 'couples with kids' or people in Tesco with the Mum pushing the trolley and the Dad helping out with the kids. Then there is that need to have a hug if you have had a bad day and it's not there.

I'm sure you'll meet your knight in shining armour soon and all will be right with the world again xx

 

[Ginger84]

completely normal, i feel the same way when i see couples out and about with their babies. Two of my best friends (married Couple) had a baby recently and i was so pleased for them but i bawled my eyes out because i was so jealous that they are the perfect little family and i had to do it all on my own.

The lonely nights are the worst, i would kill sometimes for some company and snuggles on the sofa.

x

 

[Rhio92]

I do x

 

[emf81]

It's really raw for me at the min, I only had my little girl 2 weeks ago. In hospital I was put in a four bed bay it was horrible everyone having their partners coming in visiting and the midwives kept saying things like when you get home make sure your partner helps out grrrr can I have a sign for around my neck saying 'im not with him, I'm single!!'

 

[MissRhead]

It's really raw for me at the min, I only had my little girl 2 weeks ago. In hospital I was put in a four bed bay it was horrible everyone having their partners coming in visiting and the midwives kept saying things like when you get home make sure your partner helps out grrrr can I have a sign for around my neck saying 'im not with him, I'm single!!'

Bless you hun, that must have been so hard
I hope we all meet our mr right! I feel like getting some cats and turning into crazy cat lady at the min xx

 

[teal]

I found it hard being a single mummy when I was in hospital after having my son. It was hard seeing every one elses partners coming to visit them.

 

[MissRhead]

That must have been awful for you hun. I was quite lucky as we where still together then. I hadnt even thought of how hard that must be in the hospital to be a single mummy xx

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah I do because this wasnt something I planned to happen. I imagined my FOB would be faithful being I was the mother of his kids, the greatest gift you can get out the world! But nope. He still wants everyone to feel sorry for him but he can get stuffed, he caused all this.
The one thing that keeps me going is that I will find someone who wants to be with me and I will eventually be happier than ever...

 

[ange30]

i feel the same too its hard being a single mum and like today im feeling very teary x