does it get easier?

[xxsteffyxx]

Simple question... please let me know.
-Still so miserable about it all!

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

takes time hun but it does hope you're okay. Keep your chin up x x

 

[teal]

It really does xx

 

[Snowball]

Definitely. It's taken a while but I'm totally independent now when it comes to the kids and they don't stress me out like they did when FOB first abandoned us.

Once your emotion about the situation dies down you will settle into a routine and start enjoying it. I never thought I'd adjust to 4 children on my own but I find it easy now (and that's coming from me whilst I'm currently sat up with a vomiting toddler!). Thinking of you, you will get there

 

[Laura2919]

Yes. In the first month or so I probably would have taken FOB back if he had asked just because the change was scary, I didn't want my life to change. Although I wasn't happy it seemed easier than changing my whole life but now I would never take him back. I know life is better without him and I deserve better than him.

You will get there, it doesn't just disappear, slowly slowly you'll just begin to do things you normally wouldn't and before you know it you will be ok.

 

[bw1691]

Absolutely! Once you get into a bit more of a routine and used to it all.
It was the best decision i ever made, Alfie is such an amazing happy boy and i feel so good about it because it was all down to me.
I wont lie, theres bad days, when i think of him and miss him incredibly and what we had, but then i snap back to reality and remember what he changed into and smile that i got out!

You'll be fine in the long run, it might be hard while your going through this but remember to cherish every second, everyone says it and i dismissed them at first thinking theyre trying to scare me when they say it flys by, but each little milestone comes around so quickly and before you know it, theyre refusing to be fed by you, telling you no and kicking a ball round the living room like theyve been here forever! haha

Take care xx

 

[xxsteffyxx]

First week was awful, second week - it's getting easier... but whenever I am about to send Harvey off to his dads I get this sinking feeling in my stomach. It's like butterflies, nerves?

Is this normal?