Doesn't look like I will ov? TMI

[foreverlove]

I dont understand

My chart doesn't show that I ov'd.

My cycle is all over the place anyway so its hard to tell.

On day 13,14 and 15 I had wet cm with abit of eggwhite in it, my cervix was high open but not soft, it has never been soft, only when i was pregnant.

It has remained high if not got slightly higher, about 4 days ago I had very thick white cm, it was so thick and tacky I thought I had a yeast infection ( it wasnt)

After that it went quite dry but there was abit of ewcm by my cervix.

Then 2 days ago I had lots of creamy globby stuff with eggwhite and it had pink in it, the same the next day. Also my cervix was high more closed than the wet day.

Now today my temp has dipped again ( I was up nearly all night though ) and my cervix is still high very closed and its globby white cm with ew in it.

I check my cervix morning, afternoon and evening and at all three its high.


I do not have a clue whats going on? I am starting to think I havent ovd at all

 

[loopylew]

i'm the same as you. FF hasn't detected that i ov but i've had ongoing cramps since cd15 and creamy cm

 

[foreverlove]

It's so frustrating though!

 

[loopylew]

i know im better at temping when at work as im up at the same time and not drinking

 

[Caroline]

I'm getting confused with charting too.

Last month on my fiirst response monitor my temp rise post OD was day 17, ie OD 16, but fertility friend says OD was CD 15. Had no joy with OPK, cycle length 28 days.

Month b4 didn't chart but according to monitor OD was CD 20, cycle length 30 days.

Currently CD 18, had EW/ Watery CM for past 6 days, OPK's line getting darker, but still no increase in temp. Getting frustrated sure i'd OD last night as had really bad pain RHS in pelvis but obviously not.

Charting to get to know my cycles as not planning on ttc at the mo, but hoping that it will help when we do.

 

[foreverlove]

I had ov pains a the time of watery cm, which is why I thought I did, but to be honest I dont think charts work for everyone?

Mine is all over and i have seen others with long cycles who have a similar problem.

Oh well I will just have to see wether the arrives

 

[loopylew]

im not sure they work if you can't take temp at same time every day

 

[Caroline]

I had ov pains a the time of watery cm, which is why I thought I did, but to be honest I dont think charts work for everyone?

Mine is all over and i have seen others with long cycles who have a similar problem.

Oh well I will just have to see wether the arrives

Hope stays away and its for you.

Guess i'm just impatient as I ov CD16 last month, I'm paranoid that now i'm 30+ that maybe i'm not ov properly and if / when we decide to ttc no 4 that it will be difficult.

I shouldn't complain as if it doesn't happen I have 3 wonderful lo, and i know I should'nt be greedy but I love having kids and given the chance we'd be like the waltons .

Oh actually said to me tonight that when I go thru menopause he doesn't know who'll be more depressed him or me, as he's getting very broody again

Sending you all lots of : dust: and fingers crossed for a for you all.

 

[foreverlove]

I roughly take it around 730/8ish each morning.

I missed a couple of days as I was at a funeral, mind on other things.

I just thought, hmm this could be totaly wrong, but can you get implantation dip after seeing abit of browny red blood?

 

[foreverlove]

Hope stays away and its for you.

Guess i'm just impatient as I ov CD16 last month, I'm paranoid that now i'm 30+ that maybe i'm not ov properly and if / when we decide to ttc no 4 that it will be difficult.

I shouldn't complain as if it doesn't happen I have 3 wonderful lo, and i know I should'nt be greedy but I love having kids and given the chance we'd be like the waltons .

Oh actually said to me tonight that when I go thru menopause he doesn't know who'll be more depressed him or me, as he's getting very broody again

Sending you all lots of : dust: and fingers crossed for a for you all.

A OH getting broody, well I thought id never see that in writing!!!

I think checking your cp,cm aswell as temp really helps, wether it works for me I dont know! But I wish you all the best, both of you

Yes I am very lucky I have a beautiful little DD but I would just love a little brother or sister for her.


Good luck to you too

 

[loopylew]

yeah i think so, its about the right time to be implantation

 

[foreverlove]

Thank you, I am going to do some digging and drive myself mad with information

 

[Caroline]

Am just getting used to CM checking, knew it changed but never really associated it with monthly cycle. Much more aware now.

Its really hard when you already have lo/los, when ttc 'cos you kinda feel guitly as you are already blessed with 1 or more los but can't help that urge/ need for a sibling for lo especially as I am an only child.

I hope you don't have to wait too long for your BFP.

How long did it take for you to conceive your lo if you don't mind me asking?

 

[foreverlove]

She was an unplanned surprise, well more just letting it happen.

I had no idea about cycles, cm, cp or anthing, I was very lucky I concieved, I think it took about 2 months.

Good luck x

 

[Caroline]

She was an unplanned surprise, well more just letting it happen.

I had no idea about cycles, cm, cp or anthing, I was very lucky I concieved, I think it took about 2 months.

Good luck x

My 3rd was an unplanned surprise too lol.

I was really lucky with other 2 as came off pill and fell pg straight away.
I'm can't believe how lucky we were I'm sure when /if we decide ttc no 4 ( hopefully sooner rather than later) it will be the same.