dont know how to feel anymore

[2ndtimer]

this baby is due the same date at my 3rd son, the 7th march. all my babies are early 36-37 weeks. my 3rd son was born last year on the 9th february, so realisically i could be giving birth in a week and a day, (doctor said i could go anytime certainally will be here within 14 days) how do i cope at morning for my son who should be one and celebrating a new life that will be coming. i havent been burying my head in the sand in relation to the caution of sids with the new baby, (i lost my nicholas kole last march at 6 weeks old to sids), but i really never let it enter my head that i would have to face what would be a birthday and a birth around the same time!!! also dumb ass pram people and headstone company want to put up and deliver the stuff on the same day!!!

what am i supposed to do, i am just focusing on my 2 and 4 yr old just now but realistically i think next week i will be a mess!!!!

 

[Twinkie210]

I don't think there is anything you can do except take it one day at a time. But I don't think that your Angel would want you to feel guilty for celebrating his sibling's birth. Good Luck to you and I hope that your little rainbow brings you some joy in your time of sorrow

 

[robbo1]

Hi so sorry for what you have been through but as has already been said try to take each day as it comes you have such a lot going on in your mind I'm sure can you not reschedule the pram or headstone delivery so they aren't arriving the same day it's very bittersweet? X x

 

[SabrinaKat]

Can your OH/FOB step in and take over the pram/headstone duties, even to call them and explain? Not that it's an anniversary, etc., but just to rearrange delivery?

You don't need any more pressure!

best wishes

 

[2ndtimer]

Can your OH/FOB step in and take over the pram/headstone duties, even to call them and explain? Not that it's an anniversary, etc., but just to rearrange delivery?

You don't need any more pressure!

best wishes

my OH and i run a recovery and mechanics business and currently he is working 5am to midnight, he is alone most of the time and his father is currently going thru Cheimo for inoperable lung cancer!!!

i have changed delivery address for the pram so it goes to my mums, as i feel the headstone is more important to me. (that sound wrong) i mean i dont need the pram straight away. i swer we had a tough year, but feeling a little more possitive today as i was at hospital and saw healthy baby and s/he is head down so hopefully not long left, then i can deal with my emotions instead of hormones!!!! ahhhhhh

thanks girls