kammy23
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so we finally had are results back after a mess up at the military doctors with a changer over in docs the results where "misplaced" for 3 months !! .. so with a new doctor who is there permently now we can move on ..
the results where for my husbands sperm .. instead of 20 -25 million he has 9 million and instead of 15 super sperms he has 1 .. but 1 is better than none right .....
he has to re-test because the sample was outside his body for over an hour before it got to the lab. if theres a dramatic difference things will be easier but at the moment we are looking at a IVF route ... with us only being young the doc told us we have age on our side. which is good. i feel abit in limbo emotional wise because i was relieved we got an answer but not the one i wanted hubby hasnt really talked about it much but when hes been ready to talk he imagines the worst asking me how i feel about adoption or sperm donors. im my head i desperately want to feel a little baby in my belly but not if its not his n i dont want him to feel seperate from the whole thing . so if ivf doesnt work we are probably going to adopt , its really hard to get my head around i never thought it would be this hard to concieve ........
the results where for my husbands sperm .. instead of 20 -25 million he has 9 million and instead of 15 super sperms he has 1 .. but 1 is better than none right .....
he has to re-test because the sample was outside his body for over an hour before it got to the lab. if theres a dramatic difference things will be easier but at the moment we are looking at a IVF route ... with us only being young the doc told us we have age on our side. which is good. i feel abit in limbo emotional wise because i was relieved we got an answer but not the one i wanted hubby hasnt really talked about it much but when hes been ready to talk he imagines the worst asking me how i feel about adoption or sperm donors. im my head i desperately want to feel a little baby in my belly but not if its not his n i dont want him to feel seperate from the whole thing . so if ivf doesnt work we are probably going to adopt , its really hard to get my head around i never thought it would be this hard to concieve ........