Don't know if I want to cry or... (rant)

[blackclayrose]

So OH's ex with whom he has a 12yr old son (they haven't been together since son was one) has just told OH (after not getting her way) that his son will probably be his only child so he should do what she wants.

This is not the first time she has made comments regarding our trouble to conceive, she knows we have been ttc. The last time OH refused to give in he got told "you shouldn't have any more children"

This is coming from a woman who didn't have any trouble conceiving. She had two kid at 17 &19.

We have been ttc #1for over 3 years. It has been so hard, OH has is so supportive and loving.

I dont understand why does she thinks she has the right to keep commenting on us having children?

It makes me want children more than ever.

But at the moment I don't know if I want to cry or scratch her eyes out. Im not a violent person so I guess I will just cry.

 

[laura109]

if i was you id ignore her. shes a jelous immature women not worth your thoughts or feelings.

women should never get satisfcation out of anyones baby troubles.

if you can not fall naturally theres alot more options. like ivf, sperm doner, adoption etc.

she maybee jelous that u make ur hubby happier than she could.

you have to give a **** about what someone says for it to bother u. and i doubt really u think very much of her opinions xx

 

[blackclayrose]

laura109 - You are right. I really don't give a **** what she thinks.

Her words just caught me in an emotional moment.

We are very happy and it makes us even more determined to achieve the family we wish for.

 

[BearFamily]

What a horrid women! It's easy for us to say "Don't let it bother you, she's a cow" because she is. However you need to get those emotions out. Maybe a good jog or punch a boxing bag might be helpful.

Sending well wishes to you and your OH

 

[BabyPleasee]

oh my im so sorry to hear what youre gong through with her.. that is cruel. your day will come, dont worry. and as long as you and your man have eachother and are supportive of each other whle you are ttc, thats all that matters sending hugs, baby dust and good luck your way!