Ever wonder what you ever saw in FOB?

[AshOllie]

I saw some pictures of FOB on a friends facebook and I actually thought to myself....what the hell did I see in him? I mean he isn't bad looking but I would never go though now. Not because I know what he is like but because he is just soo.... I dunno. He has a bad hair cut and how could I have never noticed his awful nose? Or skinny arms? I am glad Ollie takes after me minus the hair colour

 

[chels24uk]

I wonder why i stuck by mine for so long all the time... but do still miss him. Would NEVER go back though!

 

[billy2mm]

i sw a pic of my ex last night and he looked good. it hurt. i look like a dogs dinner at the momnet and it doesnt help ive got 2 maasive cold sores under my nose right now.

 

[xarlenex]

Definately!! I blame friends and family, I was young, they should have knocked some sense into me

 

[billy2mm]

Definately!! I blame friends and family, I was young, they should have knocked some sense into me

yeah i dont get that at all?? now they keep telling me oh you deserve so much better and he was an arse and i never liked him - erm well why didnt you tell me this before i married him and had his children???????

 

[Pyrrhic]

No because I still love him. So when I see pictures of him I wonder why it all went so wrong. I know what I saw in him, in the beginning we were a great couple. Now seeing pictures of him just makes me miss him, so I just avoid him altogether.

 

[Blue_bumpkin]

No because I still love him. So when I see pictures of him I wonder why it all went so wrong. I know what I saw in him, in the beginning we were a great couple. Now seeing pictures of him just makes me miss him, so I just avoid him altogether.

im the same xx

 

[SophiasMummy]

yes and no. i still love my babies dad because at the end of the day he will always be her dad and i sometimes wish we hadnt broke up. but then when he couldnt be bothered to come see his daughter in the NNU when she was ill after she was born and the fact that he has repeatedly lied to me and refuses to pay anything for his daughter yet is paying for and looking after his new gfs baby that isnt even his, i realise me and his actual daughter are better off without him even though i wish sophia had both her parents whether we are together or not

 

[Fraggles]

I do wonder what I saw him in, I think when you first meet someone it's the whole package that makes you attracted to someone and you dont notice all the physical things, where as now if I see a pic of him I think why. My baby looks like me though thankfully.

 

[chels24uk]

I think im still in love with mine. The only thing that makes me never want to go back is the fact hes a serial liar and cheat... but other than that im desperate for my family back. But I know one day i will find someone who actually loves me and actually wants a proper family unit.
I never go by looks myself. I want the happy loving personality!!

 

[gemabee]

in a way - yes - because he's a complete egotistical prat...
BUT - he is very good lookin in a suit - albeit with a bit of a beer gut nd greying locks!
would i go there again?
HELL NO!

 

[lily123]

Yes haha! I look back and quite literally cringe... i really have NO IDEA what i saw in him xx

 

[18singlemom2b]

i feel two different ways.

when i look back on the relationship i have some sadness but so so much anger. because he was full of shit about basically everything, and i am a very smart self aware girl and knew much of what he was saying to me was bullshit. there were warning signs for all the bad things that were going on, but yet i gave him the benefit of the doubt. he was a great bullshitter but so many times when i had bad feelings about things i would say this is it for me, no more until this or that changes but he always found a way to talk me out of it. i wonder why the hell i ignored some of the bad feelings i had when i could have gotten out easier, without loosing as much as i did. and i'm angry because i sort of feel like he won, not sure what he won, but i feel like he thinks he pulled a fast one on me.

we still talk, and i don't feel love for him anymore. i don't desire to be with him, i dont want to make things great. he could ask me to marry him tomorrow and i wouldn't. but when we speak, i just feel so comfortable with him, and attached to him in some way. like i don't want to start all over with someone else. it's weird. i'm not sure exactly how to explain it.

 

[Surreal]

He was a looker, but in the long run, I am *so* glad to be done with him. In my mind, I realize he only took advantage of my situation, and the fact that I was struggling emotionally with my divorce from my abusive husband. He knew exactly what to do to lure me in, and then lied entirely about his own situation.

Manipulative, egotistical, whiny b****d that he was.

 

[rosie272]

Mines was a bit of a looker too,so thats probably what I seen in him in the first place (shallow I know) but when the going got tough he turned out to be a useless t**t and his true colours came through! Then I knew he had to go (and he has). Phew.

 

[xJG30]

Not so much anymore but I used to.