Janesworld
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First off, Hi! First time posting in this section, and could really use some advice! Sorry, sort of long...
Not sure which approach to take with my 12 year old step daughter. I see a lot of things her father does not. Lately, it has to do with a new boy (a naughty little boy whom I really don't like). I've caught her sneaking him into the house, lying about being with him, things like that, and have been informing her father. Today she posted on facebook that she was in a relationship with him, and I again told her father (who was LIVID). Then I see that she blocked me from seeing a post on her wall about meeting up with the boy tomorrow.
I'm not sure if I should keep being the tattle-tail, or if I should try and be the one she can be honest with (without worrying about getting in trouble) so that at least someone knows what's going on. I'm really torn.... up till now, though, I have felt obligated to inform him, because frankly I'm really worried she's going to get herself in trouble.
Any advice would be really appreciated!
Not sure which approach to take with my 12 year old step daughter. I see a lot of things her father does not. Lately, it has to do with a new boy (a naughty little boy whom I really don't like). I've caught her sneaking him into the house, lying about being with him, things like that, and have been informing her father. Today she posted on facebook that she was in a relationship with him, and I again told her father (who was LIVID). Then I see that she blocked me from seeing a post on her wall about meeting up with the boy tomorrow.
I'm not sure if I should keep being the tattle-tail, or if I should try and be the one she can be honest with (without worrying about getting in trouble) so that at least someone knows what's going on. I'm really torn.... up till now, though, I have felt obligated to inform him, because frankly I'm really worried she's going to get herself in trouble.
Any advice would be really appreciated!