False BFP

[Miss Jennifer]

@ 9dpo, turned out to be residual trigger (11dptrigger). Tested the trigger out yesterday with a 10dpo BFN. Cramping today, didnt have a test this morning, just kind of scared and apprehensive. Going for a beta tomorrow at 8am if AF doesnt show today.

I dont know if Im just weaker than the average woman, but infertility is taking such a mental toll on me. I feel depressed, don't want to go to work, don't want to socialize. It's just so much to bear.

 

[mrssunshine78]

I don't think you're a weaker woman, infertility is so hard to deal with, I've avoided people, not gone on nights out and things just because I didn't want to socialise. Am sorry u have another bfn

 

[seoj]

I'm so sorry it's been such a struggle hun. Certainly don't think your weak because you have moments... we all do. I don't think anyone would want to be in this situation. I certainly didn't think this was where I would be!? BUT- I do believe that if this is how it's meant to happen, then so be it! I'm going to do all I can do... and well, the rest, we have to learn to let it go. And I'm not one who likes giving up "control"- lol. Well, who does?

Wishing you all the best of luck hun. I truly hope it happens for you soon. And when it does, all will have been well worth it

 

[cottonlily]

If yesterday was 10dpo, today would be 11 and tomorrow 12dpo. Do you normally start your period that soon?

It's totally normal to feel that way but really don't let it get the best of you. IF can cause real, clinical depression (not just feeling sad sometimes) in women. If you've continuously changed your behavior - ignoring friends and cringing to go to work - maybe you should talk to someone. Sometimes it just helps for someone to tell you it's ok and talk you through it. That's why we're all here GL to you!

 

[carolyn_s]