Fed up waiting...feel in limbo

[jaccib]

Waiting is the worst.......never had to do this bit!!

After miscarrying 25th August...we were devastated......I'm testing on sunday to check pg hormone levels. I just want to show so we can start again!! Do I only wait one cycle or more??? My m/wife says that we should just go for it and what will be will be....what's the right way??? I have no idea what do you all think?
xxxJacci.xxx

******Well good old showed up 27 days after m/c......soooo here we go with ov obsession!!!!!******

 

[HkLiz]

I really am not sure how it goes.. but i didn't want to read and run. i am sorry for your loss.

 

[jaccib]

Thanks HK. Don't think posted this in correct forum really.......not sure new here you see

 

[Ju_bubbs]

Hi Jacci, firstly sorry for your loss.
If your midwife says go for it, then I cant see any reason to wait if you dont want to. I had an early mc at the end of July, and we started trying again as soon as the bleeding stopped.
Good luck xx

 

[Zoya]

Hi Jacci

so sorry for your loss and I know exactly how difficult it is to wait after mc........I also had a mc end of july and got my in 26 aug........so we are trying again........when I had this mc,I decided to wait for 3 cycle before trying again..........but after waiting for 1...........I can't wait anymore.......and as I have read in many post and also according to my doctor.......it really doesn't metter if you wait for 3 months or start immediately.......until unless you have some other issue..........I wish you a good luck and lots of abby dust for your next preg.....................I hope you can recover from this soon....and start fresh.............as I also had 2 mc in a row while we were trying for our first child...........its very painful
have a nice time.

 

[jaccib]

Thanks Ju.
We so want to start trying again
Where in cornwall are you? I have family down there!

Jacci xx

 

[Ju_bubbs]

I'd get going then if its what you want! Loads of luck and baby dust!!!!

I'm near Hayle.

 

[jaccib]

Thanks Zoya,

No , don't know when to expect her so just go for it is what we are thinking...what will be will be!

Jacci.xx

 

[jaccib]

My parents live at Fraddon.......mother in law ish (my husband died 2 years ago) lives in Newquay!!!

 

[Zoya]

Thanks Zoya,

No , don't know when to expect her so just go for it is what we are thinking...what will be will be!

Jacci.xx

I think it should come within 6 week..........

 

[Omi]

Just wanted to add i was given the all clear at the hospital after my d&c.. i know its a bit different..but the jest of it is if you are over the mc...there is no reason to wait (unless one had an ectopic- a different story altogether). Your body will only support another pg if its ready..so allthose stories about waiting are not true. yes, it will be more difficult to date it if you get pg but thats what modern science is all about, i.e. scans!

Good luck, chicken!!

 

[Lazy Leo]

Hi hun, I started to bleed on 17 june and didn't get the all clear until the 15 July. I was constantly going to the hospital every two days to get blood tests done as it was a suspected ectopic. But it wasn't and it cleared naturally and I got my first period on the 17 July. So all in all it took me five weeks.

We couldn't try that cycle as my hubby was away but we did try this month. If your midwife says it ok then medically it'll be fine. But you need to wait until you are ready. I know for the first few weeks I just needed hugs and sex was the furthest thing from my mind. I didn't believe it when everyone told me the pain will pass but it does. Yes you might have a few wobbles in future weeks but the healing process will begin shortly for you sweetheart and you just have to let that healing process run its course. Sending you big hugs xxx

 

[jaccib]

Thanks girls. Still no

Just spoke to hospital with my result from test.
They say that I should wait for 1 at least as more likely to miscarry
Well confused now!! We haven't not been trying so see what happens.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I'm sorry hun

I say just do it!!!

 

[jaccib]

Thanks honeybunch.
Like I said haven't not been trying
Been feeling really tired,heartburn like it's going out of fashion,bbs feel heavy and tender don't know if it's about to show cause never had these symptoms for her before!! Have no idea at all!
Just have to see what happens...it's been 3 weeks since m/c so I dunno

Keep you posted
Jacci.xx