bostonblonde
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I always wanted to be a younger mother, having all my kids in my 20s. My DH wasn't ready for years, so I waited, thinking there'd be no problem. So when I got pregnant at 26, I was thrilled because I was still pretty young. Since then I've had 3 losses. At this rate, the youngest I'll be when I have a baby now is 28. No longer really in the "young" category anymore... more like average. Somehow I've lost two whole years. If I want more than one kid now, it's a guarantee I'll be having the next one in my 30s. My own mother had me in her early 30s, and always wished she started younger. Now suddenly I'm in her category, but not by choice! I know I'm still relatively young, but I feel like years are just slipping by. Whenever I lose a baby, another 9 months of planning goes down the drain. Then there's the horrible TTC part, which wastes even more time. This is also the prime age when suddenly everyone else around me is popping babies out left and right, effortlessly. My DH and I have been together 8 years, but have suddenly fallen behind everyone else, and not by choice. It is so frustrating!