:( feel like my experience is ruined..

[daisy777]

feeling so down atm, i cant enjoy this pregnancy because basically my oh in the past has, to be quite honest, been the worst bf you could ask for and has cheated alot! when i fell pregnant we gave it a chance and even tho there has been more rumors hes grew up alot and i choose not to believe them. but the fact is i dont trust him one bit and know if he got the chance heed cheat again. i dont know if i love him but its to hard to leave him atm. i feel like im stuck! any1 had any similar experiences?

 

[KiansMummy]

Hi hun i kinda no how you feel, i split up with FOB when i was only about 13 weeks, it took me ages to split up with him cos i thought i loved him, but things weren't right and deep down i knew we'd be better of seperated, so i ended it i was gutted at first but now i dont regret it one bit . But since then he's not left me alone, says im being cruel on the baby, says he still loves me and wants to get back together with me etc etc,, Hes just childish and now hes got another girlfriend, who ive found out he was seeing behind my back before i feel pregnant and then ended it to try and make a proper go of things. I feel like half of my pregnancy has been spoilt by him, ive been constantly stressed and worrying etc but All i do it just try to think of the baby, he comes first and i dont need his prick of a dad messing our lifes up. Keep your chin up hun xxx

 

[vaniilla]

I haven't had a similar experience but I have a very close family friend that went through something similar, they were married and although she had doubts about him as he had cheated on her in the past she stayed with him because they had a son and she loved him and then when the second was born he started taking drugs again and she found out he had started seeing other women again, when they broke up he left them with nothing and sold all their possessions including his son's cots and doesn't even go to see them now,

I'm not saying this will happen to you and he might have changed but gut instinct is right in most cases, don't slide things under the carpet take things in control, a relationship with doubt is not healthy for either of you, if you feel you will never trust him its best to let go as hard as it sounds, I hope you do whats best for you