feel really stuck :(

[stevon111]

Hi Guys

Im really not sure what to do... ive had a incident with my Ex partners sister and i really dont want to be picking my Daughter up from her house again

Im getting really tired about how her sister is looking after our daughter for 2 nights a week and im having my daughter 2 days so My Ex is only having her 3 days a week and im noticing this is happening every other week so i decided when i picked my daughter up from Ex partners sisters that i would ask in general conversation how long she has had her for..... and when i left i didnt let my daughter take a baloon with her (which she wasnt really bothered about)

i text my ex yesterday to let her know what time i would be dropping her off and got a reply:

'yeah okay thats fine.. just wanted to ask.. my sister was saying when you came to pick faye up on saturday you were abit nasty to her not allowing her to take a baloon back with her and asking her how long she had faye for?

when i got this message i decided to ring her and ask what this message was all about becouse i am never nasty to my daughter in any such way... ive had her for 2 years each weekend and ive always been around since she was born and i also said that if i was going to have issues like this again in future that i would have to make further arrangements to pick her up from yours (her mum)

bastically im really unhappy that her sister has had a go at me like that and i really want to start picking faye up from her mums house and not any of her family members (my ex doesnt work or anything so there should be no reason as to why i should be having to pick our daughter up from there in the first place)

also i just dont feel its acceptable for my ex to only have her 3 nights a week then palm her off to her sister or her mother for the other 2 days ....my ex says this is a rare occasion but i know for a fact its not and im being lied to... she also wont accept the reason for our daughters behavior is that she has such and unstable life being passed around so much.

 

[Mummy1995]

To be honest. If it's upsetting your daughter so much, I'd be inclined to be involving social services. I said this on your other post, but can you not have Faye for the 2 nights she's at her aunties? Then at least she'd have a stable environment for 4days a week?

 

[stevon111]

i do 12 hour shifts at work so its very difficult which is why i have her on the weekends when im off work.... its me its bothering... i just want to be able to pick her up from her mothers house and not her sisters... its not normal for ex partners to be picking their kids up from the other persons family

 

[Mummy1995]

I think you and your ex need to get together and have a big chat about it all :/