Feel selfish and scared

[sweetbuthyper]

Ok so i got a call from a very upset friend (shes more like family) saying she had miscarried at 16 weeks pregnant in the early hours of the morning, she didn't know she was pregnant until yesterday so its all come as a shock. I'm trying to be there for her and will be as much as i can but i've been sat in tears for the last hour coz it's brought all the memories of loosing my littleone at 23 weeks back.

I feel selfish for being upset, and i dunno how i can help her. I'm now 11 +4 weeks pregnant and was terrified before now i'm even more scared it just reminided me that it will never be safe till bean is in my arms.

Hurting so much.....I just want my baby here safe now, and have so much time to wait still.

just wanna curly up in a ball for the next 7 months and hibinate till the babys here.

 

[jessandaj]

i think what your feeling is normal. This happeing to her has like you said made you remember a very hard and terrifying life changing expiernce you went threw and made you think about it never being 100% guranteed. Try and stay positive, this is youre rainbow baby and things will be okay. Try and be there as best you can for youre freind without getting yourself to stressed. Ill keep you and your freind in my prayers.

 

[sweetbuthyper]

thanks hun, feeling alot better now just guiding her through the hospital stuff and helping her see the light at the end x

 

[jessandaj]

Glad you're feeling better happy and healthy what's left of your pregnancy to you !

 

[MamaTex]

thanks hun, feeling alot better now just guiding her through the hospital stuff and helping her see the light at the end x

That is very sweet and strong of you. It can be hard having to see someone suffer because not only does it hurt to see another human being in pain, seeing them in pain for something you experienced does bring back the memories. I am glad you are feeling better too. You are a good friend.