Feel so worthless :/ nothing to do with a section btw

[Jade_2012]

I keep hinting the fact ive been through a major operation and im still sore yet the only thing anyone does for me is my OH washes my hair.. I feel like no one gives a dam about me at all! My dad chose to stay at home and watch porn instead of visiting me in hospital and seeing his first grandaughter.. My mum seems to be pissed off everyday and doesnt want my OH staying with me when he goes back to work (im living at mum & dads) and OH still talks to me like crap! Plus theyre being dickheads to MY dog cause shes not getting enough attention shes being naughty, after seeing my brother literally 24/7 since i got out of hospital the last 2 days he doesnt want to talk to me!
None of this is helping while im feeling a little bit of the baby blues!
Seriously wtf!

 

[Jade_2012]

Oh and im so tired where im the one doing both night feeds!

 

[Saki]

So sorry you are going through this
Can you talk to your mother? I know what its like to have a difficult relationship with my mother but maybe she is acting pissed off because she is stressed and doesnt like your oh speaking to you like crap? And because her husband seems like a bit of a dick ( sorry but he missed his grandchild for porn?!) thats just lame. Leave him to it, his loss.
How old is your brother? Maybe he is all babied-out!
Do you have a girlfriend you can talk to? What about finding a new baby group where you live to get out of the house and into a supportive environment? Or take your dog for a VERY GENTLE walk?
Dont go through this alone and if you are feeling the baby blues defo mention it to your midwife or health visitor etc xxx sending hugs hun x

 

[Jade_2012]

If me and my mum talk about my OH staying it just ends up in a argument, my brother is 27 with 3 boys of his own he acted like he couldnt get enough of my baby now just nothing, il try and take my dog for walks as all i feel like doing is getting out!