feeling alone/let down

[purpledahlia]

I have had such a rubbish week, i feel so let down by my friends and excluded, and i feel so alone just now. i know this is bound to happen and my gran just tells me to think of the little baby that will be here at the end of the year, but i just want to cry right now. I am moving back to scotland at the end of the year and im considering moving sooner, but then id have no job! dont know what to do x

 

[Welshcob]

Hi Purpledahlia - You sound like you are in a down spot. Where are your family? Why would moving back to scotland be good? I just wonder if it is to be with your family? If so then if they will support you, I would risk the job and go. But if its just because you want to run away, then be strong and stay. we have to keep going and having a job will help your independence and standing on your own two feet and help you feel the strong independant woman that you are! You just don't know it right now!!! xx

 

[babystar]

 

[edinsam]

aw hun sorry to hear you are down - I remember a couple of weeks ago you were so up. Hey we are going to have the ups and down continuosly after whats been done to us aren't we. Overlay pregnancy hormones on top of that - what a lethal combination!

Like Welshcob said - dont just run for the sake of it. I know your brother is up here (and hey I am always going to promote Scotland arent I) but be sure you leave for the right reasons. I know your mum is being a great support to you down there so you need to factor that in. Yes you would be here but are you really wanting to leave everything else behind.

2 weeks ago I decided I was leaving my job as I couldnt cope with seeing the moron every single day in life - it was a killer. Someone talked sense into me that night and now I more adamant than ever that I will not let him get to me in that way so instead I get myself all done up and stroll in here to work like I own the place - its killing him!


Take the highs as well as the lows hun, just think carefully before you make such a drastic change

Here as ever for ya

Sam
x

 

[purpledahlia]

thanks girls, ALL my family are up there in scotland, central glasgow and edin. But i moved here and have this job, i dont earn a huge amount but i dont pay rent or bills or buy food, so i basically am in a position to save every penny cos i have no outgoings... it would be silly to turn down 800 a month for the next 5 months ish. But i just feel so deflated and let down by friends, like im excluded, and iv tried telling them but they dont understand. they think by saying ' coming to x place ? we're on our way ' makes me feel included, whereas a few weeks ago they wud say want to do something together? then we would decide together what we want to do. i know its small but it makes a diff.
and i work everysecond weekend and theres a bunch of girls i dont like and i feel like my friends spend the entire weekends that im off with those girls, but they are all off everyweekend why cant they see them when im working?? know what i mean? am i being silly? i just feel so left out and down. my mum and dad are buy buying a new house and moving next month and just feel like everyones got all this stuff going on and im stuck here at the top of this house suffering in the heat alone.
boo. xx

 

[tinkabells]

Awww didnt wanna read and run, hope your feeling better though, i always feel bit let down by my friends i've only got one true friend now tbh xxx