Feeling down

[Rose1625]

We are still trying to conceive. It's been more than a year and still nothing. Feeling down at the moment. All my younger cousins are pregnant or have kids already. Have two cousins pregnant one with her 3rd and the other with her 2nd both are younger than me. I'm happy for them but at the same time I'm hurting. I been wanting a child for awhile now and it seems like it's never going to happen. Right now I'm just crying. My husband was talking to my brother about us trying and I just got mad at and told him to stop. I don't mind him talking to my brother about it. I just was hurt that we been doing everything the doctor has told us and nothing. Maybe it will never happen. Maybe I'm not meant to be a mom just an auntie.

 

[MissStacy]

I am sorry you are feeling like this. I know how bad you hurt and so do many other woman on this board. Sometimes it just doesn't seem fair. I am 33 and we have been trying on and off for 5 years. The last 7 months we have been trying with the help of an OB and if things don't work out we may have to move on to seeing an RE. The only issue i have is Endometriosis. All my other tests are fine, my periods are like clockwork and I ovulate every month with a normal luteal phase. So what gives. If you need someone to talk to just let me know. I understand and cry about it often.

 

[armywife48]

I often feel the same way. It is so hard to watch others around you be able to conceive and have beautiful babies and nothing that anyone tells you will make you feel better about it. If your like me, it will probably make you even angrier. You just have to stick with it and be positive, as hard as it is. Take time to cry, be angry, and even mourn it, but don't stop talking to your husband about it. The only thing that keeps me going is knowing that God will not hand me anything that I can't handle.