feeling unhopeful and unpregnant (4 dpo)

[doodle33]

hello im now 4 days past ovulation and feeling most definitly un-pregnant. Which sucks, OH is trying to stay positive but im finding it increasingly difficult :/ need a bit of positivity tbh, are there any really early symptoms that i can be watching for? Also if i dont have spotting does that mean im not pregnant? Its my first cycle and its all so confusing in all honesty :/ baby dust to all x

 

[hulagirl]

Hi doddle33
I am 2dpo and also feel nothing. although i think that is not unusual, I dont think most symptoms kick in till around day 6,7,8 although i could be wrong.
xx

 

[doodle33]

ah okay thank you nice to know someone else is in the same boat lol. Im caught between trying to be hopefull but at the same time i dont want to get my hopes up if im just going to be disappointed :/

 

[hulagirl]

Yeah i have been there on a number of occasions although i feel quite calm at the moment, so fxed for us.
I have stopped looking at early symptoms as i can drive myself mad lol
with the spotting question it is very hit and miss some people have i/b and others dont, think taht is the frustrating part of it all
x

 

[Stinas]

Implantation my not happen until after 6-12 DPO...possibly even later. So you may not have many symptoms until then or after.
Try not to find symptoms because you will drive yourself crazy. Trust me...my last cycle I went nuts....AF came at CD 53....24DPO!!! I had every symptom in the book....then the old bag came. Its upsetting....so your better off keeping yourself occupied....as hard as it sounds...just try.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

my friend is 8 months pregnant and has had no symptoms! Except for the big tummy and kicking that is hahaha x

 

[Jess137]

Yeah hun you won't have any symptoms until after implantation, because there aren't any pregnancy hormones being released until after that happens. Chin up! You still have a few days before your eggy implants! Good luck hunni!

 

[doodle33]

thank you all really helped im gunna ban myself from pregnancy symptom websites cos their definitly doing more harm than good! Just gunna keep the positivity flowing baby dust needed! x