Finally coming to terms

[Rafiki]

Today my boys made me see the sense of this pregnancy when they told me that God gave me what i needed and not what i wanted and i should be happy as they know we really need the little guy.That made me cry tears of relief and joy now i can even shop looking forward to the arrival of the little guy.,Waiting any time now for his arrival

 

[Baby321]

Hiya rafiki, I have also come to terms with having my fourth girl ( last baby). I am sure we are given what is best for us. I am due for my section in 8days. Just hoping to make it through and be able to look after my little girls. best of luck, we'll be ok xx

 

[Mummy2B21]

Aw thats so lovely and so true im glad you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy now

 

[Ecologirl]

I think you're right. I'm getting used to the idea of having another boy too. At first I was so devastated I didn't know how I'd ever come around and if so when, but now I feel quite alright about it, fairly positive actually. Well except for the name, that's the sore point as I feel I'm missing out on on something that would really help me bond.

 

[detterose]

So glad to hear everyone else is coming around as well. I felt really great today shopping for my little man. I didn't cry once! Which is a big step haha. I still looked over at the pink stuff and got a bit jealous of the other mums with little girls that were in the pink aisles. But didn't shed a tear

I'm with you Ecologirl, I'd probably feel 100% if we had a name.

 

[Ecologirl]

So glad to hear everyone else is coming around as well. I felt really great today shopping for my little man. I didn't cry once! Which is a big step haha. I still looked over at the pink stuff and got a bit jealous of the other mums with little girls that were in the pink aisles. But didn't shed a tear

I'm with you Ecologirl, I'd probably feel 100% if we had a name.

Good on you Detterose. I'm really happy for you that you actually enjoyed doing some shopping today. It is a big step and it's just nice to be able to feel a bit more positive. Yep now we just need names, lol we really will need to start a nameless baby club methinks!

 

[Rafiki]

Thanks ladies we will all be alright and we will enjoy our babies no matter the gender

 

[JasperJoe]

Really pleased for you, enjoy the rest of you're pregnancy xx

 

[blinkava]

This is exactly what my mom told me on Monday after we found out that we are going to be having our 3rd boy. I know that I will love my little boy no matter what, but I feel bad that I was a little bit disappointed to be having another boy. Now I don't have to share my Queen of the house title with anyone.....for now.

 

[ILoveYouZandT]

I'm really happy to read this thread! I really hope if I do end up having my third boy (last child) that I will have the same outlook as you ladies.