first appointment tomorrow

[LauraAvasMum]

Spelling awful but I have my first obseterition appointment tomorrow my hospital have lost my birth notes from my first born so theres no proof of a c section as theres no note even on system one ( courts now involved) basically I was left with no midwife from 36-43 weeks I was trying to book myself in for induction and did it was left in a bed for 2 days before was touched or seen anyway went into labour and daughter went tacicardic ( heart beat dropped ) any way she wasnt engaged so as pushed at 4:30 it did nothing I was 16 so head midwife kept coming in as midwife was buzzing her as baby was stressed my pushes did nothing she said put drip up and tell me to push as im just being a silly girl !
Long stoy short was taken to theatre at 9:50 for forceps and votouse they faild and had section

None thats on record my daughter has alot health problem that may or may not be caused by lack oxygen when hospital questioned why I was left as daughter was having seizures they then said oh theres no note from then they were lost

Whats chances of them Refusing me I cant ever go through that again from mine and babys sake ( hospital just got a grant to promote vbacs ) but its a crap hospital lots babys this year have died through same as what happend to me x

 

[xvmomovx]

You can prove you had a section by your scars alone. Any doctor will know what it's from. Also I would definitely go to another hospital. I am not sure about where you are but here once you've had a section they allow you to elect a 2nd. I was offered the option to VBAC and considered it but decided against it. They didn't really even care to be honest.

 

[LauraAvasMum]

I dont have a scare its faded so much it looks like a strechmark ill look into other hospitals policys if not ill move were you are
Thank you for reply x