First miscarriage

[JesseLake]

Hey. Its my first miscarriage, happened last thursday(7th may). I really dont know how im meant to feel. I want to cuddle up in a ball and pretend im invisible but everyone around me expects me to almost not be affected by it and carry on as normal. I lost it at 5 weeks, id only been confirmed pregnant for a week. I decided to name the baby Jordan as its a unisex name as it was too early to no the sex. Im just so messed up. Dunno how im meant to feel.

 

[AP]

Totally take your time to relax and let yourself go. There is no right or wrong way to be through this!!
I know how it feels. i dont know what i did. It was a bit of a blur. But do speak to people!!!!!!!!

 

[bklove]

I think I went throught alot of emotions, but it was also related to the circumstances around as well. Just take it one day at a time, and just be open to feeling, and open to helping yourself heal and move forward. Everyone around you may not understand that as its easier being on the outside looking in, so pay them no mind! You can definitly find support here, so please don't be afraid to stop by and write whatever. Good luck to you and I wish you peace & strength.

 

[babytots]

hun i am so sorry for your loss. i'm sorry everyone around you is expecting you to carry on as normal. i guess they dont understand hun. you take as long as you want cry as much as you want,scream rant etc its natural your baby may have not been in your tummy for long but jordan was your baby nontheless. x

 

[Shelby2007]

No one understands.. until or unless they have experienced this.. just because you were 5 weeks doesnt make it any easier.. and just because you only knew for one week doesnt make it any easier.. the day you found out you were expecting you became a mother.. and you LOVED that baby..

Take time to greive.. one minute you will be fine.. the next in tears.. the next screaming at the top of your lungs.. this is normal sweetie.. Im terribly sorry for your loss.. xx

 

[Shelby2007]

PS) and we are all here for you.. xx big

 

[CarCam]

Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry. I know exactly how you are feeling right now. Take some time to heal- the pain will eventually get better. I just lost two, one at 6 weeks and one at 5. If you want to message me, please feel free to do so.

 

[buffycat]

i am so so sorry to hear of your loss. It is such a difficult time, and you need to heal, both pysically and emotionally as this is such a rollercoaster.

take care....

 

[catfromaus]

Ditto to what has been said. Big your way.

Cat
xxx

 

[.T.]

I'm the same as you, i found out i was preg then a week later everything had changed. I was 5 - 6 weeks aswell. I thought i was the only 1 who doesn't know what to feel. I seem to just put on a brave face for everyone else but when im alone thoughts run through my mind + i end up breaking down again

I think that crying is my way of letting it out but i don't want anyone to know how hurt i am

 

[Chilli]

So sorry to hear your news, it's a really awful thing to happen no matter when and I feel for you. You will feel better, but you have every right not to yet... or for quite some time. Do what you can and find comfort here

 

[JesseLake]

Hey guys. Thanks for all the messages. Been a week and im like a bloudy yoyo, its getting on my nerves. I try to distract myself as much as possible, but knowing what im missing out on isnt helping. Ive got a lil crucifix on the same chain as my own and did a painting to help me with it. I feel almost like jordan is with me all the time, its a bizarre sensation. Its at night when my thoughts and emotions have the time to get to me.

 

[bklove]

keep finding ways to express your thoughts and feelings, its the best way to keep healing as time moves on. And ofcourse Jordan is always with you!