FOB driving me insane inside!

[SmartieMeUp]

Over the past few days he's had LO with him (overnight stays) and all he's been bothered about is meeting new people (he says for friends, it seems otherwise). He's dedicating his time which should be with DD as he gets her once a fortnight, instead he's more bothered about other women/girls.

I don't know if it's bothering me more out of jealousy and hurt too. But Ava deserves to have time spent with him and not him forever on the internet putting other women first!!

 

[Dream.dream]

Unfortunately as frustrating as it is , you can't dictate what he does with his time with her , it's seems silly he would waste it though since he doesn't get time that often .

have to try not to let what he does bug you or over time it will just drive you crazy , my sons dad has used the only time he was vet allowed to have out son unsupervised to take him to visit a 16 year old girl he wanted to date , men are stupid

 

[SmartieMeUp]

We've had a little discussion, and he's agreed to only attempt with others once LO is asleep while she's there, or when she's at home with me. How long that's going to stick around I don't know. He will find one way around it.

 

[Jennaxo]

He should be using that time he has with you LO to her, he has the rest of the time to do what he wants talking to others! Hope he sticks to his word and starts putting you LO first!

 

[SmartieMeUp]

I doubt it's going to stick.

She's back home with me now, dropped off at 8am. He hasn't asked once to see how she is - he would normally ask what she's had to eat for dinner/tea, and ask about her behaviour during the day. But nothing. I text him "Ava's fine. Thanks for asking all day". All I got back was "But glad she's okay".

New people are coming on the scene and his general interest is deteriorating.