FOB - Its all over?

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So, he just came over, we had a huge fight. He broke up with me. Said if i tried to contact him for any reason he was gonna commit suicide.
Im not really sure what i did, but being pregnant- i dont think this is a great thing for me to handle right now. We havent been getting in huge fights lately, so im not sure whats going on. Ive been with him for 2 years. And hes not exactly... around my age. Im not sure what to do :(
 
*hugs* Really sorry to hear that, I'm not with my FOB so I know how it feels.
Focus on you and baby :)
 
:hugs:aww hun hope ur okay...you think hes stressed out or something?
 
Thanks guys. And im not really sure. It was really random. We were supposed to go out to eat, and when he came to pick me up he just freaked out. I guess he could be. But the whole scene still wasnt neccassary.
 
Oh you poor, poor thing... :hugs:
You don't deserve that! You didn't do anything wrong... :nope:
I hope things work out for you, I really do!
 
Lol he IS around your age. He's only a few years older, and he sounds really immature. "i'm gonna commit suicide", seriously? Idk if I'd want my child around that.
 
omg, I'm sooo sorry he did that to you! :hugs: How long has he known about the pregnancy, do you think he was just stressed about that? :shrug: It sounds a bit like a cry for help to me, but I guess since he said not to talk to him he will have to find comfort elseware. You need to not stress over it though hun, you're taking care of yourself and that beautiful little baby! Hope things turn out great for you! :hugs:
 
I'm 19 and if my boyfriend pulled that I'd tell him to kiss his daughter goodbye when he left. You do not want someone that unbalanced, immature, and attention hungry around an infant.
 
And if you seriously think he is going to hurt himself, call someone. He's either seriously crying for attention like a child, or he really needs help and doesn't know how to ask for it. If you think he will hurt himself call someone. It'll be better for him in the long run if he is serious about it, if he gets help. Including you and your little baby. You both deserve better.
 
Awh, I'm really sorry. :hugs:
That's really weird though. My OH has been acting different lately too, I think there just stressed out. Hopefully he'll come around hun,
xx
 
He sounds really immature to be threatening something like that. Sounds like you're better off without him tbh. :hugs:
 
sometimes being with FOB isnt whats best for you.. dont worry things seem crappy now but when the baby comes you wont miss his BS!
 

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