Fob leaving me

[Frooty]

Im in bits if im honest i dunno what to do i love him and he loves me but says we have no spark

 

[Jade--x]

Sorry to hear Do you think offering to go back to the beginning and to start dating again he might consider it to see if the spark comes back?x

 

[Flowerbaby]

Hi hun, this exact samething is happening between me and my DH right now, we have been together for 8 years and since having LO we have also lost that spark and im not sure if we will ever get it back. My DH moved out on thursday and we have decided too have a trial seperation too see if we can sort things out and get that spark back, i just cant see how we will now though, its such a very sad time. Sorry you are going through same, only advice i can give is try some time apart? I miss my DH sooo much and its the hardest thing ive had too go through but i know we need this space too try and resolve our problem and save our marriage. Big hugs too you

 

[Dezireey]

If he has made the decision to leave and he says there is no spark yet you are willing to try, best thing is to let him go and don't contact him at all. mistakes no1 is to immediately try and get someone back within weeks of a break up. Let him miss you, really know what its like to be without you and if he still ( after maybe a few weeks or months) stands by his decision, then you'll have to start thinking about moving on, sorry Hun. It's so difficult but we can't force these things in life.

 

[Danie1stbaby]

I am so sorry you are going through this,but you are not alone.It must be a trend happening now or something,so sad! If a person walks out of your life hold the door open for them.I have to keep telling myself that missing someone does not mean you want to be with them,don't be tricked into believing that.Missing someone is apart of the moving on while healing process.It's the memories you will miss,not the person.It is going to be a tough journey,but it will all be ok,I promise you.I am still heart broken but you have to sweep up the pieces and move on.Never hold onto someone who does not want to stay.I am using my own advice,I must have a lot of fluid to spare.I can't tell you how much I cry/cried and heard from others..that it will be ok.No one knows your specific pain,so it is up to you to find a solution in fixing it and healing.Hugs to you and we will make it~The Queen always does ♥