FOB...

[imaginary8x]

Well he sent me this message just because I sent him a picture of his daughter. :/

next time you try to communicate with me again. i will fucking break your nose Emma. okay? and tryna communicate with my friends who have no interest in you just get my attention? grow up. this was YOUR choice. now YOU deal with it. blocked

should I contact the police?

 

[scottishgal89]

i would
he threatened you
would get it on the record
totally unacceptable!!
hope your ok

 

[kelly86]

i agree i would go to police theres no need for that

 

[purpledahlia]

Well he sent me this message just because I sent him a picture of his daughter. :/

next time you try to communicate with me again. i will fucking break your nose Emma. okay? and tryna communicate with my friends who have no interest in you just get my attention? grow up. this was YOUR choice. now YOU deal with it. blocked

should I contact the police?

sorry to see hes so aggressive, unfortunately i doubt the police will do anything. I would just take the moral high ground and ignore him. He sounds angry that you had Amy and hes not accepted it yet, i think thats the main proble with a lot of these FOB's, theyve not accepted that they have babies. they dont wanna acknowledge it or deal with it. He is the one who will miss out,

 

[Aidedhoney]

Well he sent me this message just because I sent him a picture of his daughter. :/

next time you try to communicate with me again. i will fucking break your nose Emma. okay? and tryna communicate with my friends who have no interest in you just get my attention? grow up. this was YOUR choice. now YOU deal with it. blocked

should I contact the police?

sorry to see hes so aggressive, unfortunately i doubt the police will do anything. I would just take the moral high ground and ignore him. He sounds angry that you had Amy and hes not accepted it yet, i think thats the main proble with a lot of these FOB's, theyve not accepted that they have babies. they dont wanna acknowledge it or deal with it. He is the one who will miss out,

AGree with this hun, big hugs x

 

[teal]

Well he sent me this message just because I sent him a picture of his daughter. :/

next time you try to communicate with me again. i will fucking break your nose Emma. okay? and tryna communicate with my friends who have no interest in you just get my attention? grow up. this was YOUR choice. now YOU deal with it. blocked

should I contact the police?

sorry to see hes so aggressive, unfortunately i doubt the police will do anything. I would just take the moral high ground and ignore him. He sounds angry that you had Amy and hes not accepted it yet, i think thats the main proble with a lot of these FOB's, theyve not accepted that they have babies. they dont wanna acknowledge it or deal with it. He is the one who will miss out,

AGree with this hun, big hugs x

I also agree

Sending you huge hugs xx

 

[scottishgal89]

when my ex threatened me i reported something else later on to the police and mentioned the threats, they asked me why i hadnt reported the threatening at the time

 

[Aidedhoney]

when my ex threatened me i reported something else later on to the police and mentioned the threats, they asked me why i hadnt reported the threatening at the time

No harm in reporting it, in my case the police were brill but then the courts dropped the charges lol
Its crazy sends out mixed messages

 

[imaginary8x]

I think I'm gonna report it.
As he is 20 and needs a wake up call I think. :/

 

[purpledahlia]

They will put it on file but i doubt do anything unless its continually going on or he physically tries something, if you think he might, then probably better to have it on file.

 

[scottishgal89]

I think I'm gonna report it.
As he is 20 and needs a wake up call I think. :/

sounds like best idea so they're aware

 

[sweetlullaby]

I agree that they probably arn't gonna do anything about it .But maybe at least get it on file that he threatened you etc what an asshole though!

 

[LittleMadam]

I agree with the other posts. Even though the police or the CPS won't do anything, get it on record. XX

 

[bloodbinds]

Get on record - just in case. they can't do anything with just that one thing, but you never know what might happen in the future.

I guess just don't try contacting him again if he's going to act like that. Are you getting maintenance payments off him? Going to CSA? x

 

[imaginary8x]

I'm going to CSA even know he doesn't work or anything. :/

 

[bloodbinds]

That's ok, you'll still get something off him, even if it's only a fiver a week! Better than nothing x

 

[scottishgal89]

yeah i get a fiver a week because fob is on jobseekers x

 

[imaginary8x]

He's not even getting that. he would rather sit at home and play Xbox...

 

[purpledahlia]

If he is on Benefits then it will be Jobseekers.. Otherwise im guessing his family support him, in which case youd not be able to claim anything

 

[imaginary8x]

Yup, he lives off his family. :/
well, I reported it and its been taken out of my hands now.