Funny :D

[suzanne108]

Thought you girls might find this funny....

Got a text last night off FOB asking me to check how much CSA had paid into my account because they had cleared his account

I had a look and in total I've recieved 11 weeks worth of payments. Last payment was on 14th May and it started from beginning of March - which is 11 weeks. So I THINK its correct but they took 8 weeks off him at once (£320 teehee) because they were catching up. Which has left him with no money

(I wouldn't usually wish no money on someone but its the least he deserves! Its only til he gets paid!)

I found this pretty hilarious!!!!

 

[Laura2919]

Ahh poor sod! Not! Never mind.. Now you can buy that duster hun!

Anyway on a serious note. It is what you are entitled to so who cares what he thinks. Maybe if he paid every week then he wouldnt of had it taken in a big lump sum! For them to take it and put it in your bank means he had available funds so then he could have given it to you straight! Twat! lol

 

[suzanne108]

True. He should have noticed that they didn't take anything during April and made sure he had enough money for everything else he needed.

Anyway I've left it with him to take up with the CSA. He can ring them and sound stupid

Its karma I found out that his auntie had bought Lola a rattle for easter, she gave it to FOB to bring up and he has never given it to her. I text him on Monday asking him to send it with his family who visited yesterday. He didn't reply and didn't send it up with them. So yeah...what goes around comes around

And, I think it'll take more than a duster

 

[Laura2919]

True. He should have noticed that they didn't take anything during April and made sure he had enough money for everything else he needed.

Anyway I've left it with him to take up with the CSA. He can ring them and sound stupid

Its karma I found out that his auntie had bought Lola a rattle for easter, she gave it to FOB to bring up and he has never given it to her. I text him on Monday asking him to send it with his family who visited yesterday. He didn't reply and didn't send it up with them. So yeah...what goes around comes around

And, I think it'll take more than a duster

Yeah sounds like he deserves it..

And I have a karcher jet wash you can borrow!!

 

[bloodbinds]

Lol. Wanker deserves it x

 

[AppleBlossom]

Haha awesome! If he had paid up when he was supposed to he wouldn't have had that problem!

 

[teal]

That's great news for you and Lola! xx

 

[scottishgal89]

thats class!!!!
good for you too to get a wee boost of money

 

[sweetlullaby]

Nice one

 

[Becyboo__x]

LOL
deserves it .. he knew it was coming so whys hes being such a nob about stuff! doesnt he realise when they take money out they backdate it and get it in 1 go unless he says he wants to pay it back in sections i think if he still needs cash to live off out the same account! seriously thats made my day haha least yours pays im just now at the point where im not letting FOB even see Mason as he isnt on BC and he doesnt pay for him he thinks its okay to just buy him the odd pack of nappies and the odd bit of clothing which never fits him by time he gets it to me ... doesnt help i have tones of clothes + nappies for him cause i stocked up!! lol would help him buying the milk for me .. god i hate men lol! im dreading fathers day hell expect stuff and he can balls! hes not even going to see him that day im going to just go holiday haha xx

 

[suzanne108]

Becy, thats sad about Masons dad he really seemed like he was gonna make an effort. They annoy me how they expect all the good parts of being a parent but they can't be bothered when it comes to spending money! Have you applied to CSA?

FOB brought Lola a dress for a 7lb baby when she was 9.5lb

I haven't heard from him since by the way, so I guess the CSA hadn't made a mistake!!

 

[suzanne108]

Becy, thats sad about Masons dad he really seemed like he was gonna make an effort. They annoy me how they expect all the good parts of being a parent but they can't be bothered when it comes to spending money! Have you applied to CSA?

FOB brought Lola a dress for a 7lb baby when she was 9.5lb

I haven't heard from him since by the way, so I guess the CSA hadn't made a mistake!!

 

[Becyboo__x]

Tbh i dont want his dad seeing him hes useless and hes not trusted on his own and if go through csa ill have to let him have him on his own i bet and theres no way its happening hes thick as shit :\ .. and he aint palming him off on his mum and it pisses me off that he thinks when he crys he can just put his dummy in or pick him up :\ he seriously hasnt a clue .. i just have now got to the point im in a routine and i know what to do and what he wants.. atm mason seems to cry when i walk out the room and hes started crying saying what sounds like mama/mum but more spaced out. I dont want money off him id rather him just get on with his life like he wants to if im honest im being selfish but not even 100% hes the dad and to know that gota go through court etc and then if he is his he will then get contact and get put on birth certificate and to me i dont want him on it he doesnt deserve same rights as me hes not classed as a parent in my eyes sounds nasty :\ lol doesnt help he still loves me apparently and he thinks itll all be happy familys giving me the .. "I dont want to find anyone else if i can't have you then ill stay single" what a dick! made it worse i found out he sleept with his ex a month ago who he said have STI's and was a slag but he wanted sex and only person offering was his ex? is that sick or is it just me?

have you got facebook suz?
xxx

 

[suzanne108]

Sounds like a funny situation. I know what you mean I hate that FOB has the same rights as me but was my decision to put him on the BC. He would have ended up on there anyway I think, I'm pretty sure he would have took me to court if I hadn't put his name on.

I don't give FOB unsupervised access. He comes to my house and I'm always in the room, Lola is the same she's so clingy to me but she's with me 24/7 so no surprise really. Whenever he picks her up or anything she just screams!

Yeah I'm on FB, will PM you with my name, no mention of bnb though - its my dirty little secret

 

[Becyboo__x]

I hate having to go to his with mason its just too awkard and i end up doing everything anyway cause i just know what to do and everything :\ doesnt help that he thinks its good mason smiles at just him .. when he smiles at most people who smile at him lmao mason used to do that when he was younger.. scream whenever he held him but was quite when i did made me happy haha!

Haha thankyou babe its abit easier to chat on there :] and seen as iv seen you from beginning be nice to chat to another single parent who knows what i mean
xxx

 

[BunnyFace]

 

[lou_w34]

Ohhhh ive only just seen this!

That is hilarious!!!

Just what he deserves!!!!!

xxxx