Getting so frustrated and upset.

[leannecake]

Hi, we already have 2 children (well they are from my previous relationship) but we really have been trying so hard to conceive and it just isn't happening (never tried for my first two little ones). So last year we had a mc at 14 weeks, I was afraid to even think about pregnancy for a while so went on BC for only like 3-4 months, went off bc August 2014 and have been trying to conceive ever since, after D&C for mc doctor said everything was fine and could begin to try in 2 months, so it's been 8 months, absolutely no luck, we're both young, married and financially stable so there isn't a large amount of stress, I even bought ovulation tests back in January (ovulated on day 18 of cycle) but still no luck and we tried 2 days before ovulation, 1 day before and the day of, obviously no luck, along with this for the first time in my life my periods have become super irregular, last cycle was 22 days this one is now on day 29, negative pregnancy test on day 22 and another negative today, I think since the mc I want to have a baby even more since all I can feel is the loss, the one thing that a woman can be proud of doing and so far I can't even manage to do it, the disappointment is the worse and now even trying feels like a huge chore, any advice or tips will be appreciated (sorry for the little rant)

 

[laura_019]

Have you heard of Fertility Friend? It's a great app to track your cycles and detects when you ovulate. Taking your basal body temp. and recording it on the app is much more reliable than using only OPK's. I stopped BCP a month ago and have been using the app since. I have PCOS and the possiblity of not being able to conceive naturally kills me, but I try to stay positive everyday. Good luck!!