Going into hospital tomorrow, so scared

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Thankyou all to everyone who has replied to me in other posts, ur love and support means so much, just to let u all know, I am going into hospital thurs for an induced miscarriage, I am so scared of what to expect and dont know whether I am strong enough to deal with this, one of my closest friends visited me today and actually apologised to me because she is pregnant, i feel so guilty, I want her to know how happy I am for her and knowing that she is happy after herself having a miscarriage brings me comfort. i wish I knew what to expect over the coming days, will my baby look like a baby etc etc , will i love it instantly so many questions wish I had answers to.
 
big :hug: sweetie.. We all will be thinking of you Thursday. Its times like these when we think we will break, but then we realize we are a lot stronger then we think.
This will be one of the hardest things you will have to do, as I know I have been there:cry:. So sorry for your loss. just take it one moment at a time the staff will help you anyway they can. And your support group (who ever you have with you) will be there for you as well. :hug:
 
Aw sweetheart im so sorry for your loss. Will be thinking of you. Take each day as it comes hun. Big :hug::hug:
 
Thankyou all to everyone who has replied to me in other posts, ur love and support means so much, just to let u all know, I am going into hospital thurs for an induced miscarriage, I am so scared of what to expect and dont know whether I am strong enough to deal with this, one of my closest friends visited me today and actually apologised to me because she is pregnant, i feel so guilty, I want her to know how happy I am for her and knowing that she is happy after herself having a miscarriage brings me comfort. i wish I knew what to expect over the coming days, will my baby look like a baby etc etc , will i love it instantly so many questions wish I had answers to.

I am thinking of you honey, you are stronger than you think, we get this strange surge of strength from somewhere that no one can explain.

Your questions are natural, I had the same questions in my head, (induced misscarriage at 18 weeks), dont ever doubt your love for your baby a mums love is stronger than anything.

(if there are any questions you want to ask please PM me and ill help if I can, no matter the question.)

My thoughts will be with you, please let us know how you are when you are feeling up to it.
 
Oh hun, will be thinking of you. So sorry you are having to go through this, I do feel for you.

Your baby will be beautiful, I lost my little boy at 17+5 and I wasn't prepared for what he would look like but he was perfect and gorgeous.

If you want to ask any questions hun, feel free to pm me.

Sending you :hugs:
 
Just wanting to say thinking of you, know today is the day and you will not be on here but all the same, I have been through it myself so know exactly how you feel and how scared you are..

If you ever want to talk you can pm me,

hugs
 
Sending lots of love your way. I lost my little one three weeks ago. (14 weeks) Allow yourself to grieve and to feel what you feel. You'll get through it...there is life on the other side.
 

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