Going to Disneyland, Daddy not happy!

[xarlenex]

I'm not sure if anyone seen the offer in the Sun news paper? Well basically they offered a family of 4 a trip to disneyland paris for 60..I collected all the password things you'd to collect and booked it. But I booked to stay for 2 nights instead of just the day trip. It was still a bargain and I wanted to get away soo much.

So, I told John (Kyles dad) and as I suspected, he got upset about it, but I thought he would have got over it by now but he's constantly on about it to me. Tellin me how I have no idea how it feels that he's gona miss his sons first holiday trip to Disneyland etc.. It's driving me crazy because he makes me feel like shit for it

But surely I cant put my life on hold just because he's still upset?
Or am I the one in the wrong here and just can't see it myself..?

 

[angels330]

youre right hun, you cant put your life on hold just because he doesnt like one of your decision. washe expecting to come with you or something? i think you should go and have a great time in disneyland with youre gorgeous son, and his father will just have to deal because although i can see where he is coming from in a way, he is being totally unreasonable in trying to guilt you into not going! x

 

[xarlenex]

Yeah, we haven't been getting on. I've been trying so hard but he's making it so difficult. Up until last week I was taking everything he said to me without questioning it and it was geting me down. Then when I told him about Paris he expected me to act like we've been pals the past 4 weeks and just take him. And everything would be fine!!

 

[Vickie]

I think you're right, you can't put your life on hold and it's not fair of him to expect you too

 

[doctordeesmrs]

I agree with the other girls. Go and enjoy yourselves.

 

[princess_vix]

I don't think your the baddy..

you and your son and whoever else is going deserve and need to enjoy this break.

Just think if you take him it'll be because you feel you have too..not because you want too and you'll probably end up arguing there and that would be unfair on you and your son as it's such a great experience.

I hope you enjoy yourself...don't give in and enjoy it xxx

 

[Pyrrhic]

When he made the decision to let you go and be a single parent, he has to realise that he has given up some privilages. One of them being missing his son's firsts, like his first holiday. If he didn't want to be left out, he should have thought about that.

 

[teresarobbins]

He should only care about what makes the boys happy! My ex took my son twice to Disney World and I've never got to take him..but...I was happy he got to go!