Grievances - TTC Sucks

[mrsbertrand]

Hey All, not sure if there is already a thread on the topic, but TTC Sucks! Haven't been to the fertility clinic since June, but am on a wait list for covered IVF.

Hard to BD on appropriate days or at all as I was diagnosed with IBS-D a year ago and it has negatively affected my sex life.

Been TTC 3 years (as of December 18). Though I'm not sure frequency of sex would matter, as we BD every day for two months when we first started TTC.

Hubby's sperm is abnormal, thought the specialist didn't seem too concerned. Not sure why this isn't working.

I am watching everyone around me get pregnant 1 and two times over in this time frame ( cousins, siblings, friends, co-workers etc ). I was finally at peace with it in July but that misery is creeping in again.



So I am offering this thread for anyone who needs to vent! xo

BB dust to all.

 

[soon2 b wifey]

There is a vent thread, but there's nothing wrong with saying how you feel on a regular one.

I can understand partly what you're going through. After 7 years and temping, using preseed, and different plans; the doctor told us-timing could be our problem.

Seriously Needless to say, I haven't been back. Instead, I'm working on losing some of this weight.