croydongirl
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I have had 4 early m/c, and right after my last one in December my very close friend got pregnant with her second child. She spent all the time complaining about how tired she was and how difficult her daughter was. I told her I wanted to be a good friend but that I couldn't deal with her complaining ( I said it in a nice way) and see seemed to understand. After a few weeks things were back to normal with us and she was much more sensitive to me in the way she talked.
Sadly at 10 weeks her scan revealed the baby had died at 9 weeks and there was no heartbeat. She had the procedure and after that just said she was over it. I was so emotional about my losses and she reacted so differently but we could support each other.
We are still ttc and now she is 10dpo, their first month back trying and is convinced she is pregnant because she had cramps a week after the dtd. She may well be pregnant of course, but she has sent me four emails in the last two days symptom spotting and telling me to get ready because she is pregnant.
I am just so upset and confused about what to do. I just don't understand especially after her own loss and our conversations and stuff before.
Some days I feel like I struggle to get out of bed. So much Loss and struggling to conceive is a hard burden to bear. I have great friends, including this one, but sometimes I feel like on some level she is rubbing it in my face.
Ok, ranting I know. Sorry
Has anyone else got friends who don't understand how sad it can be at first to hear about other peoples pregnancies?
Sadly at 10 weeks her scan revealed the baby had died at 9 weeks and there was no heartbeat. She had the procedure and after that just said she was over it. I was so emotional about my losses and she reacted so differently but we could support each other.
We are still ttc and now she is 10dpo, their first month back trying and is convinced she is pregnant because she had cramps a week after the dtd. She may well be pregnant of course, but she has sent me four emails in the last two days symptom spotting and telling me to get ready because she is pregnant.
I am just so upset and confused about what to do. I just don't understand especially after her own loss and our conversations and stuff before.
Some days I feel like I struggle to get out of bed. So much Loss and struggling to conceive is a hard burden to bear. I have great friends, including this one, but sometimes I feel like on some level she is rubbing it in my face.
Ok, ranting I know. Sorry
Has anyone else got friends who don't understand how sad it can be at first to hear about other peoples pregnancies?