Has anyone felt this way

[Leah_xx]

Yesterday at my OH's uncles house his little sister told me I looked FAT in the clothes I was wearing. I had on a purple top and tan shorts. So the whol night she kept tellin Me I looked fat.

Its not the first tim she has told me that. So I already have issues with my body and weight and everything and that sorta put me down and made me feel ugh about my body.

Well this morning after I got outta the tub I noticed stretch marks on my boobs, so that just added to it all. I was like yes im gaining weight and there growing but ugh no i hate my body.

Has anyon felt ughh bout there body?

DONT GET me wrong I love my little girl

 

[rainbows_x]

I go through stages of it.
I've got stretch-marks on my thighs pre-pregnancy & they faded so well.
I have now got them on my boobs & couple on my sides and some more on my thighs.

I seem to have got them everywhere but my bump, which has done the most growing!
Don't worry about it hun, the marks will fade & I am sure you are not fat, you are pregnant!

 

[bbyno1]

your nott fat!
i feel as though i am but theres a baby in there we cant expect we are gunna stay slim exactly but i know what u mean..i feel so much more worse when its hot and i go out (With hardly anything to wear) and then i8 see all the girls in their lilttle shorts and stuff and then theres me wobbling around but i just try thinkin to myself okay this isnt my summer maybe but 2011 will be when i got my figure back and out in the parks with my baby and stuffxx

 

[stephx]

Yeh I go through this

I think its normal to have down days about your body no matter how much you love your LO

I just try and think about other things when im down about it though, how much LO is gonna be worth all the stretchmarks... how im gonna love getting back into shape after the birth etc etc makes me feel a lil better

xx

 

[scrummy mummy]

how flippin rude i would be fumin..... i look massive but no one has said i look fat i would be well miffed

 

[lovetaralyn]

I know how you feel. I hate my body right now and anytime anyone says "WOW YOU'RE SO BIG" it just adds to it. Plus, i'm just a mess right now anyways lol

 

[rubixcyoob.]

I feel utterly disgusting most days.
My stomach looks as if it has been attacked by a vicious, clawed, wild animal. I have light stretchies on my thighs, legsm boobs, back and arms as well.

I feel utter shit about myself. It got that bad I thought my stretchies had no hopes of clearing so I even looked up non-surgical laser treatments for scars and stretchmarks to reduce them. Then I kicked myself mentall for even considering that.

 

[Tanara]

Sorry for the discusting photo, that i have NEVER shown anyone, this was i think 4-5 months after my son was born, i was so fat and so discusted with myself i didnt want to leave the house, i have bairly any photos with my son.

It took me a year and a half to get to the second photo, but the reason im showing that photo is there is hope that you will get your pre preg body back okay. (btw i gained 75lbs while pregnant with my son)

again sorry for the dumb photos, i dont have many full body photos.

edit btw, i have strechies, on my legs, my boobs, my hips and from my belly button down almost all the way around... they fade, you can bairly tell i have them now, hence the belly photos i post lol.

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Sorry for the discusting photo, that i have NEVER shown anyone, this was i think 4-5 months after my son was born, i was so fat and so discusted with myself i didnt want to leave the house, i have bairly any photos with my son.

It took me a year and a half to get to the second photo, but the reason im showing that photo is there is hope that you will get your pre preg body back okay. (btw i gained 75lbs while pregnant with my son)

again sorry for the dumb photos, i dont have many full body photos.

edit btw, i have strechies, on my legs, my boobs, my hips and from my belly button down almost all the way around... they fade, you can bairly tell i have them now, hence the belly photos i post lol.

thanks foor this im 5 months post preg and i gained 70lbs i hate the way my body looks and i've lost 50 and having such a hard time losing the last 20 but now i know it can happen!

 

[AyaChan]

I remember when I was pregnant, a friend and I were talking about this girl who was saying she was gunna beat me up, and my friend turned round and said "When she told me that, I was like Ooooh your hard, your going to beat up a fat chick"

I nearly chocked haha, it really upset me at the time, but now I find it funny.

I know its hard, but try not to let it get you, after all, we all need to gain weight in order to help our LO's

xx

 

[Sarah10]

Tanara it isn't a disgusting photo x
i have really down moments sometimes, but i'm accepting that its normal to gain weight when you are pregnant, and everybody gains different amounts x

 

[Leah_xx]

Sorry for the discusting photo, that i have NEVER shown anyone, this was i think 4-5 months after my son was born, i was so fat and so discusted with myself i didnt want to leave the house, i have bairly any photos with my son.

It took me a year and a half to get to the second photo, but the reason im showing that photo is there is hope that you will get your pre preg body back okay. (btw i gained 75lbs while pregnant with my son)

again sorry for the dumb photos, i dont have many full body photos.

edit btw, i have strechies, on my legs, my boobs, my hips and from my belly button down almost all the way around... they fade, you can bairly tell i have them now, hence the belly photos i post lol.

no those pics help.
i really wont have a problem losing weight once i gain it
i use to be sorta on the big side and i lost so much weight that i had stretch marks as a result of losing all the weight i did.
ill be so busy taking care of my lil girl that i wont even worry bout losing the weight

it was just the fact that my OH's little sister told me i looked fat.
and kept repeating it

 

[Leah_xx]

Tanara it isn't a disgusting photo x
i have really down moments sometimes, but i'm accepting that its normal to gain weight when you are pregnant, and everybody gains different amounts x

i know the weight gaining is a big issue with me right now.
im growing out because she is growing but im not gaining weight.
my last doc appt was almmost 4 weeks ago and i only gained a pound before when i first found out
so i had to start taking these shakes and eating more food so i would gain weight.
well thankfully the past few weeks i have gained about 7 pounds

 

[Mum_of_2_19]

I was one of the lucky ones i didnt get any streach marks with any of my pregnancies but i know someone who feels the same way as you but really there is nothing you can do about it.

The joys of having kids lol
heather xx

 

[Sophiiie]

I feel like a whale most days lol and I have a full blown breakdown everytime I get dressed, because I think I look hideous in everything. But at the end of the day, I just have to remind myself that it will be so sooo worth it when I've got our baby in my arms. Stretch marks will fade, and weight can be lost, but we'll have our babies forever x

 

[Leah_xx]

it is so worth it
i have my little one that reminds me of that when she kicks me when i get dressed.

 

[AngelzTears]

The weight gain has really hit me hard, though I seem to go through phases where I feel worse than other days. I think it's especially difficult for me because I used to be anorexic and I had almost recovered from it before I got pregnant. People keep acting like I'm 40 weeks or something because I look so big already compared to how I used to look. It really gets me down. Some days I just don't want to eat anymore because I feel so huge, but I never do that of course! I'm worried how i'll feel after the baby is born and I don't have the "I'm pregnant" excuse anymore

 

[Tanara]

Sorry for the discusting photo, that i have NEVER shown anyone, this was i think 4-5 months after my son was born, i was so fat and so discusted with myself i didnt want to leave the house, i have bairly any photos with my son.

It took me a year and a half to get to the second photo, but the reason im showing that photo is there is hope that you will get your pre preg body back okay. (btw i gained 75lbs while pregnant with my son)

again sorry for the dumb photos, i dont have many full body photos.

edit btw, i have strechies, on my legs, my boobs, my hips and from my belly button down almost all the way around... they fade, you can bairly tell i have them now, hence the belly photos i post lol.

thanks foor this im 5 months post preg and i gained 70lbs i hate the way my body looks and i've lost 50 and having such a hard time losing the last 20 but now i know it can happen!

I couldnt lose the last 25-30lbs until after he was a year didnt matter what i did, i walked everyday. I think something just clicked. Our bodys go threw massive changes in only 9 months and it takes a long time to get back to normal.

They say 9 months to gain a year to lose. Some are lucky, but some just gain and gain. Eventually you will lose it all, i was smaller than i was before my son when i got pregnant, and its not from dieting or anything just eaetting healthy and walks with my son every night

 

[Tanara]

I just want to add i didnt diet or go on any extreame exercize frenzies, i just walked and played with my son.

I felt so discusting when i had him, for the first year of his life i was totally revolted by my body. Im not trying to make anyone out there feel bad, i just personally couldnt handle it. I was niave and thought i would just lose the weight. If i could have redone my pregnancy with my son i would have walked everyday at least and not eat so much.

But my point wasnt that it was just i was big after i had him i went from 135-210-170-129. pre-during-post-then pre again.

And 135 was the most i ever weighed i was a tiny kid.

 

[Leah_xx]

i have always weighed 135- 145. never weighed anymore then that after i lost all the weight i did .
before when i was 13-15 i weighed about 180 before.