Having a really bad day...

[missmisty4]

I am really starting to believe that no one in my family understands anything thats going on in my life or that they even care! My grandmother (whom I live with) decided to go off on me today. She decided to call me a tramp! Really?! Just bc Im pregnant right now and Im not with the father, Im a tramp!? I jump into bed with any guy I meet is what she told me! First of all, I would still be with my ex had he not be physically abusive to me! Second of all you know nothing of my life nor do you care so shut up! Oh and then she decided it was a good idea to try and slap me, then attempt to kick me as I walked away! Really?? Your gonna attack your pregnant granddaughter?? Who the hell do you think you are?? I just got out of a violent living situation! Ugh! Im so tired of my dad and my mom telling me to be nice to her bc this is my living situation right now! Maybe if you all heard the things she said to me you wouldn't say that to me! Im gonna be a single mom, Im dealing with getting my restraining order on my ex finalized, I have no car, Im stressed all the time, my grandmother calls me mean names and tries to slap me and all your concerned about is me being nice to her?? WTF!? Its so hard bc they are right, this is my only option right now, I have no where else to go and I have to buy a car soon, but Im not gonna play nice with her anymore! I can't physically or emotionally do it anymore! Im not happy here, what don't they get about that!? All my fiends live about 2 hours from me, in my home town, and I can't move home bc my job is here! Gosh, this has been the day from hell, Im soooo ready to get outta here! Sorry, I just really needed to vent...I can't talk to my family, and my friends just don't get it.

 

[suzanne108]

one of my grandmas was a bit snobby about me being single and pregnant, I tried not to let it bother me because I knew that it wasn't as if I'd had a one night stand and got pregnant. I'd been in a relationship and unfortunately didn't realise what an idiot the guy was until I was pregnant! So you're not a tramp at all. I'm not saying anyone who has a one night stand is a tramp btw lol, but I think thats prob what she was getting at.

Do you really need a car? Can you not use the money to get somewhere to live instead? xx

 

[tinkabells]

Oh my gosh, your nan doesnt sound very nice, i dont know how it works in canada, but is there anywhere you can go for a few days to stay with friends so your not with her 24/7?
Glad you came out of that relationship with your ex, your already a strong person, bigs hugs to you xxx

 

[Linz88]

aww stay strong hun x

 

[littlekitten8]

Poor you hun. Sounds very stressful. Why do you need a car? Could you use that money to get a little place of your own? Is there like a government assisted programme for housing over there?

 

[missmisty4]

Thanks guys, Yes I do need a car she is the one who gives me rides to and from work. She likes to throw that in my face all the time too. Once I get my car then yes I will be able to move out. However all the gov assistance here where I live are just domestic violence shelters. I have tried to look up other gov assistance and have found nothing. My mom is helping me look, but no luck so far...

 

[sweetlullaby]

hope you get something sorted soon hun. could you not take the bus to and from work so you could use the money for rent/deposit first? like save up get somewhere close to your work so you could maybe walk there or something then get settled in and then look to save for a car?

 

[missmisty4]

The only thing for me moving out right now, the town I am in is really really expensive. I cannot afford anything up here on my compensation. Im looking for a roommate currently and Im trying to save up to move back home to my hometown and all my friends. My job may be able to transfer me to the one there. However, in order to do so I will def need to have a car to move. Yes I can take the bus, and I do that as well as get rides from co-workers just so I don't have to be around my gma more than I have to.