Hello, Ive just lost an angel ...

[Ang]

Hello all, I have jst found this forum and wanted to introduce myself. Im Angela and just had a miscarriage over the weekend. We are both devastated and can't seem to stop crying. I desparately want this to be over and try again. xx

 

[Vickie]

Welcome to the forum, so sorry to hear of your loss

 

[doctordeesmrs]

Welcome so sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[tink]

oh no ,so sorry to hear x
welcome

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi Ang,

Sorry for your loss

Thinking of you

Kerry

 

[porkpie1981]

sorry for ur loss. I had a D & C at end of march and feel better now (never thought i would)

 

[Happy]

So sorry to hear of your loss. I m/c at the beginning of last week and I thought I would never get through it. We have both picked oursleves up and are going to start TTC very soon. It does get easier. x

 

[WW1]

Welcome to the forum. I'm really sorry to hear about your loss

We are here to talk to if you need it - I've found this forum incredibly helpful -the support is amazing and is by people who genuinely know what you are going through.

It does get easier xx

 

[Freya]

So very sorry to hear of your loss, you are amongst friends here! Many know what you are going through and many will give you a virtual hug even if they can't relate!

Hormones are a bitch and just be aware they will be in control of you and your emotions for a short while, just go with it, shout, scream or cry all you like. Amazingly the physical recovery is very, very quick - natures way of getting you back on form to try again (when you and OH are ready!!!)

XXXXX

 

[7WZ]

I miscarried on Sunday at 21:55 I was 18 weeks gone though so I had to give birth to him. I know what you mean when you say you can't stop crying. Whenever I have to talk to someone about him I have to try so hard to stop myself from crying. The bereavement people rang this morning about the funeral and I couldnt talk. I have to wait 3 months til I can start trying again. I had to have the rubella immunisation just before I left the hospital and if I was to concieve within 3 months the baby has a high chance of being blind and deaf.

I'm going to use this time to make myself well and healthy and just to try and relax. I miss my baby boy so much, I will never forget him. I just want to have him in my arms again or to atleast have his urn with me here, so I can feel him close.

I hope you feel better soon and concieve again x

 

[buffycat]

Ang...

i am so very very sorry.........it is a heart-breaking thing to go through, for both of you, and i wish that i could say 'you'll be ok, everything will be ok', but i can't. What i can say is that you need to look after yourselves, and remember that when you are ready to talk, or to ask questions, then we are all here.

we each have our story, and like WW1 says, things will get easier (though you probably can't see that yet)

crying is a good thing though, i remember crying solid for 2 days.....i guess it is all part of the process...

take care.....hugs to both you and your partner

 

[maccy]

Take care hun, xxx

 

[golcarlilly]

So very sorry to hear of your loss, you are amongst friends here! Many know what you are going through and many will give you a virtual hug even if they can't relate!

Hormones are a bitch and just be aware they will be in control of you and your emotions for a short while, just go with it, shout, scream or cry all you like. Amazingly the physical recovery is very, very quick - natures way of getting you back on form to try again (when you and OH are ready!!!)

XXXXX

Just felt the need to say, so glad for you that your physical recovery has been quick but for me it is taking forever!! I am still bleeding 36 days after m/c started!

 

[golcarlilly]

Hello all, I have jst found this forum and wanted to introduce myself. Im Angela and just had a miscarriage over the weekend. We are both devastated and can't seem to stop crying. I desparately want this to be over and try again. xx

Hi and welcome to the forum, you will find lots of support and advice here, so sorry for your loss

 

[golcarlilly]

I miscarried on Sunday at 21:55 I was 18 weeks gone though so I had to give birth to him. I know what you mean when you say you can't stop crying. Whenever I have to talk to someone about him I have to try so hard to stop myself from crying. The bereavement people rang this morning about the funeral and I couldnt talk. I have to wait 3 months til I can start trying again. I had to have the rubella immunisation just before I left the hospital and if I was to concieve within 3 months the baby has a high chance of being blind and deaf.

I'm going to use this time to make myself well and healthy and just to try and relax. I miss my baby boy so much, I will never forget him. I just want to have him in my arms again or to atleast have his urn with me here, so I can feel him close.

I hope you feel better soon and concieve again x

Hi, don't want to hijack this thread but just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss and hope you are ok I can't imagine how awful it must be for you having to think about a funeral, we are all here for you if you need anything

 

[Ang]

Thank you all for your kind and thoughtful messages, it means alot to me. xx

 

[trish4]

Hey Ang i know how you feel ,just to say time is a great healer nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better coz all you want is your baby back. Like 7WZ i also had a m/c at 18wks went into early labour on the 3rd of june .am trying to cope the best way i can.Doc`s say you can try after your first period so Good luck.

 

[em1]

So sorry for your loss.

I M/C quite recently and although it's still fresh in my mind, it is getting easier. Being on this forum has helped so much, being able to talk to others who are going through the same.

It is easier for those who havent been through a M/C to say "it'll get easier", but honestly it will.

Take care

 

[AppleBlossom]

sorry to hear of your loss x