Hello

[KMR31]

Hello all. I'm writing a post to introduce myself. Where to begin? I work in an alternative school, students from middle school to super seniors. I was ready to start trying around my husband and I's first wedding anniversary, however my husband wasn't. We waited until our fourth wedding anniversary (after he got the job he wanted) and started trying last July. Got pregnant on the third cycle (Sept), and lost her in week 13 (Nov/Dec). Cleared to start trying again in Jan, but we've missed my ovulation every cycle. Husband has always had a low sex drive, even lower now after the loss.

I'm feeling so many things. At this moment, rejected, sad, hopeless.

 

[KMR31]

I guess I should add that last night was our engagement anniversary, ovulation test came up positive, but husband wasn't feeling it, so we didn't try.

 

[lesondemavie]

Hi KM, So sorry for your loss . This is my first cycle back TTC since an MMC in early February. Will this be your first baby?

 

[mitchnorm]

Sorry for your loss X X xx. It's a sad and tough time. There is some great support on here

 

[KMR31]

I'm sorry for your loss, too.

I think of her as my first, although medically speaking she was lost in a missed inevitable abortion. We're trying to conceive what I hope will be our first live birth.

 

[KMR31]

I'm sorry for your loss, too.

I think of her as my first, although medically speaking she was lost in a missed inevitable abortion. We're trying to conceive what I hope will be our first live birth.

 

[mrs unicorn]

Hi KM, so sorry for your loss. I had a MMC just 2 weeks ago. I'm very keen to get back to TTC but not sure my DH is. We're not trying until after af though, I'm hoping he'll come round to the idea by then. It really is a horrible time, but like Mitch said, I've found so much support on this site. I know it can be hard but have you tried telling your DH how you feel? X

 

[lesondemavie]

I know what you mean. I lost my baby at 8 weeks, but I still think of him or her as my first. There are so many feelings and thoughts swirling around as we get back to ttc. I even cried last night while dtd. I think it's all normal. Hard, but normal. Feel free to join us over on the TTC#1 AL Buddies thread. So far it's just a few of us, but both me and MrsU are there for support . Hope to see you around and all the best for the future

 

[Clarinet90]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

My husband and I started ttc this month after miscarriage in December. It's a very emotional time for both parents after a miscarriage. I hope you and your husband can heal soon and you are able to ttc!

I hope you find the support you need here. I joined yesterday and already feel great about this website.