Ok so like most women on here I have a question? Here we go starting from the beginning! My boyfriend and I have been together 4 1/2 years. I recently got off birth control because I had been on it for ten years and was ready for a break. In the meantime we have decided to use condoms. Once I got off my pills AF came to visit 2 days later. 18 days after that visit I got a second visit for a length of 5 days. This time around it has been 32 days and still waiting for her to come. I have cramps and lower back pain like it should be coming and it just isn't. I have taken 2 preg tests and both came out negative??? Anyone have any ideas of what might be going on?