Help!!

[chelly100]

Hi,

So this is the prob... I have only been tring to concieve for one month/cycle and had very positive signs of O, loads of EWCM for a few days, so we BD then. My AVERAGE cycle length is 34 days which means I am on day 35 of my cycle, one day late. I am not like clockwork tho, so my cycle could just be longer this month, however...

I have been having mild aching pains and also had some dizziness yesterday, tested with a very cheap Sainsbury's POAS and got the faintest of faint lines, I was literally looking at it under a spotlight (!) but could def see a line. I also did cheap Sainsbury's again this morning, expecting it to be more obvious this time - but NO! Still a very faint line, but defo a line, I'm sure. I had a CB digi in the drawer and used that instead and it came up NOT PREG!!!! I'm so confused as I'm sure I saw a second line on the cheapie, husband even said he could see it. But why would a cheap Sainsb's detect and a high tec CB digi not??? Is this possible??? I feel like I'm going croizy

I think maybe I am just imagining things now, has this ever happened to anyone (not the imagining, the faint bfp cheapie but bfn on digi)? I can't believe I'm getting this obsessed so early on in my TTC journey, ha ha, what am I gonna be like if it takes a while?!!!!!!

 

[Rumpskin]

Welcome Chelly.

Can you post them online for us girlies to see?

xxx

 

[chelly100]

Would it not be pointless now tho as I did them so long ago, like hours? I've just chucked them in the bathroom cupboard so I do still have them. Can't do it tonight tho as I don't want my husband to realise how obsessed I am

Thanks for your response. x

 

[Rumpskin]

Okay, no worries. Wont tell hubby either!

 

[TrixieLox]

Some girls on here tear their CB digitals apart to see if there's a faint line so mebbe try that!!! It can take days after AF due b4 it can show up on a test so be patient - if you don't get AF by, say, Tuesday, do another test!!! x

 

[Franjipan]

I read that the clear blue digit aren't as sensitive as the ordinary cheapies so thats prob why you got negative on the clear blue.they say if you get a line on test its usually a positive no matter how faint (as long as u read it within the time frame they give u)a line is a line,don't wanna get your hopes up but sounds good to me.test again and let us know xxx

 

[Rumpskin]

These pregnancy tests are a minefield. I give up!

 

[chelly100]

Aaarrrghhhh, it's such a mind game!! I know what you're saying, a line is a line, but when the CB digi said Not Preg then I took it as that really. I mean, say I am having a 34 day cycle, that would mean that I O'd on roughly day 21, which was around 3rd Feb. So that makes me 14 DPO, surely if that was the case then I'd be BFP on CB digi by now????

I so don't wanna convince myself that I am, but I am seriously going crazy, the days feel like weeks! I'm having strange dreams, waking early, like 4am, wondering if it's time to get up and test with FMU. It's so mind boggling!!! I'll need a bank loan for HPT'S tho, the way I'm going

 

[Rumpskin]

I would wait a few days (I can give advice!) and retest again. So many girls have said test with CB digi and some girls have said cheapos are better. Have you any left (or money?)

 

[chelly100]

I have ONE cheapo left, used my last CB digi this morning :0(

I so know I'm gonna test tomorrow and probably get the same result as today. Coz that's the other thing, because I'm so sure I saw that faint line, I'm testing everyday with the understanding that if I am PG then the hormone must be increasing and therefore gving a stronger BFP, no? I really wanna wait a few days, BUT I CAAAANN'T!!!!!!!! X

 

[Samo]

have you tried going to the doctors for a blood test to get a definite confirmation? And i've read something like, HCG levels rise every 2 days...dunno if you want to wait 2 days to test with your last HPT (i know it must be crazy just waiting 1 day!!) lots of luck to you though, i so hope you get your bfp soon!

 

[chelly100]

Thanks everyone for the advice, it really helps when you feel as tho you're going crazy!!

Well, I did my last HPT this morning (I knew I would, ha ha) and my very faint line has all but disappeared!! There was nothing. I so wasn't imagining it on the others tho as even my husband said he could see it - and it was within the 5 minute time frame they give you to read the results.

Oh well, I'm just gonna sit back now and wait for AF, I am definately having aching sensations which tells me it is prob on it's way.

The most annoying thing about all of this tho is that I def had the positive signs of O'ing around day 21, which should mean that I'm having a 34/35 day cycle. Now I'm confused, maybe I O'd later than I thought...?

I always seem to write an essay whenever I post - sorry!

 

[keerthy]

ohh hun...... come on stay positive!!!!!! I am 19 days late with BFN's and i am already mad.... crazy... etc etc with all kinda signs and symptoms......

will keep u in my prayers...

 

[chelly100]

19 days late and still no BFP?? That's so not nice :0(

Like you say tho, we all got to stay positive, it wll happen eventually

 

[wilbrabeany]

My first test had a very faint line but next two nothing Its a bit addictive doing test and very expensive..haha. fingers crossed

 

[xclairex]

good luck keep us posted