Hey all :)

[jamielou]

I'm a single mummy, split up a while back though we only told everyone in about January. Must admit I am finding it hard. How does everyone cope? He still is very much involved with my son and stays around a lot but i find it hard and worry about things a lot. Anyone else think no man is ever going to be interested in a single Mum? I know it sounds depressing i just sometimes think stuff like that when i miss couple stuff like going cinema or even just a cuddle! Though my little man gives great cuddles sometimes I think you need adult company to! Hows everyone do on the dating scene or do you just take each day as it comes?

I'm Jamie btw

 

[purpledahlia]

:wave:

I dont find it hard, but more lonely. I havnt met anyone who wants to go on dates, how can i when all i do is babythings with other mums i dunno how to ''get out there'' x

 

[jamielou]

Hey hun!

I know what you mean! Its like everywhere you go you are pretty much with the baby and no man in their right mind will approach you with a pram! Must admit i dabbled in online dating but was VERY unsucessful! :S

 

[lou_w34]

Same as purpledahlia! I dont do anything to meet anyone lol, plus since having lo my body confidence has hit zero, so i dont feel like id attract anyone anyways haha

I do find somedays hard, like if i dont feel well, i have to look after lo, but i want someone to look after me too! but the feeling of being lonely is so much worse!

Oh and hellos!

xx

 

[jamielou]

Hi

Yes i know what you mean, the other day i was feeling v.ill and the dad wasnt about and lo was screaming and screaming and i thought arghh i really need a nap and a hot water bottle and you just have to plod on! The loneliness is awful. I feel ok about my body now as i lost all my baby weight i just have zero confidence to approach men as i think they see you as baggage or hard work if you see what i mean!

Big hugs! xx

 

[expecting09]

Hey hun

Yeah I'm with everyone else, I don't go anywhere to meet a man, not that any would wanna come anywhere near me! I guess it all comes in time

 

[jamielou]

Hey expecting! I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you I think there is just a lot of stigma attached to the single mum title sadly! Am the same as you's really, most i go is shopping or eating out with friends so don't really get to meet people but it does get lonely tho i do find cuddles with the lo always help. xx

 

[tinkabells]

hiya like the others have said, dont find it hard, just lonely and miss the company of an eve when she goes to bed at half 7, its just me til then, but i dunno about the others some men wont be interested in ya, but then there not worth it, but i've met a fw guys who dont mindf, but where im from nearly 1 in 5 have kids lol xxx

 

[jamielou]

Lol tinka, must say, my area has a pretty high rate of single mummies to I think i just attract bad men! Though do agree, i think its only the evening time with the lo is in bed it bothers you as lo keeps me too busy in the day to notice!

Thanks for all the replies! X

 

[tinkabells]

Yeah that's all is it is, when there asleep its like awww peace, but then feel lost... xxx